are you married and still flirt a little?

Question

i still flirt with guys a little because i guess in a way i like the attention and i like knowing that im desirable.(you can say im insecure, i never had alot of confidence with my looks when i was younger) but i would never take it to the next step
by flirting i mean talking and joking around with guys and giving eachother compliments, not directed towards anything sexual tho

Answer 1

Sure. It keeps some spice in the marriage. My Wife isn't very good at flirting but she thinks it is funny when I do it. It is usually with her friends and she knows I'm just kidding around and so do they.

Answer 2

Absolutely...it is fun and playful. My husband and I flirt with each other all the time. We will be at a party or whatever and see each other across the room and I'll blow him a kiss or he will mouth a message like , "you're hot". It's fun. I have to admit though, you have to be careful. I had an ex reconnect with me and things almost went too far. Just remember you can't flirt with your ex. They (the ex) has been there, done that and take it seriously. As far as being out at the mall or whatever, we both look and sometimes I will even say to him "isn't she pretty". However, we only look. And as far as his friends, I sometimes think he enjoys me looking at them or flirting with them, because he knows I am going home with him.

Answer 3

Ya just a little, I always try to see how far I can go without crossing the line. I know its risky, maybe I should stop.

Answer 4

Every couple sets their own boundaries but most are fine with playful flirting.

Answer 5

It's fine, my wife and I both do it. Window shopping never hurt anyone, and it's human nature to be attracted to other people.

Answer 6

Im going to flirt regardless....God gave me eyes to bat!

Answer 7

I flirt all the time, especially on here, but I suck at it so maybe I'll stop.

Answer 8

Just a little.

Answer 9

Not anymore.

Answer 10

nope...