Why does it mean if he is still checking up on me?

Question

I'm still in the process of getting over a break up and the reason we broke up is because I caught him trying to cheat. He had a girl he met over the internet come to his house nothing had happened between him and her yet but that's what the intent was but I caught him before and she left and sure doesn't talk to him. So it's been 3 weeks now and I have a page kinda like myspace on a site called migente. On migente it tells you who visited your page and sat he went to my page. Then yesterday he checked it again I put new pics up but nothing that says I'm sad or upset cause I think that would be giving him to much credit. I just changed it to show I'm single again and not much else. So my questions is why is he checking my page I know I shouldn't care but I'm wondering why. He has never apoligized for his action or in the last 3 weeks acted like he cared. We were together for a year and he was really close to my son so now I'm wondering what he's thinking. I have no intention on contacting him but what do you think??

Answer 1

He has come to his senses...We men are guilty of acting first and thinking later. He probably realizes that you were the best thing that ever happened to him and he is trying to figure out a way to get back to you...or he is just looking for a quickie...be vigilant and live your life the way you want to....not the way someone else does

Answer 2

It's probably a good idea to be able to observe his snooping on you and you can know he visited. It is best to have zero contact with a cheater and someone you truly can't trust. The fact is you were single and available all the time with him but you chose to stick it out with him. He showed his true colors with the girl he met on the internet. He made a choice to find someone because he was discontented with you for reasons you might know or can guess about. His relationship breaks down into two parts into your life. Your son which you said was close and you which changed unexpectedly to becoming dishonest or therefore a cheater. The time-line was just a year, but you can see it wasn't as close as you found out. Who felt the most in to this relationship was probably you and now you are moving on. Your son needs stability and a guy in his life his mother can count on to be true blue. Maybe someone who has a future into both of your lives and the you can dangle that precious stone from the left ring finger.....

Answer 3

Well it's obvious to me that chances are the relationship that he started with the girl on the internet probably didn't pan out for him. So he's seeing what your up to to see maybe of getting back with you. BUT if I were you, I'd want him as far away from me as I could get him!!!!! He's a cheating lieing manipulating asshole. WHy would you be even CURIOUS about someone who had done you wrong like that??? Don't think he wouldn't do it again. Because he would. Thats just his character. Doesn't really care about anyone but HIMSELF!!!!!

Answer 4

He may just be nosy, and want to know what you are doing. He also still may care, he may be angry with you for catching him, there are lots of different reasons he could be checking your page. You shouldn't contact him though, that is smart on your part. You should put something on your page that shows that you are doing okay and are happy.

Answer 5

Men find it hard to let go even if they cheat and leave....he is comparing his new girl to you...and she is not comparing to you....she was just lust...with you it was probably love. Its just a shame though cuz today a lot of ppl go after lust and mistake it for love....and continue to go after lust while love is right in front of them. When the lust is gone he will be abck...but by then you will be way voer it and on with someone else that appreciated you more then he did.



But yeah he might be reminiscing about how good you were to him in other weays other then having sex wiht him...his new girl...may he is seeing now that it was just a passionate sex thing and he fell into the temptation....but he will continue to do this until he gets help

Answer 6

He's being the typical ex. He had feelings for you.. that's why he was with you to begin with, so you can't expect all that to be gone overnight. Just like your feelings won't go away overnight. I have no idea what he's thinking... I don't even know what my own husband is thinking 90% of the time.



Just typical curiosity, I wouldn't worry much about it.

Answer 7

since you don't care, why ask??



i think you do care... and that is why you want him to check things out and contact you..



or just get over it and move on with your life..

Answer 8

thats how most guys would react but he is just probly ashamed to face you cause of what he did ..... i bet he is sorry and would like to tell you that but he just cant face you

Answer 9

let it go and say beep off scum