Been divorced nearly 6 months now?

Question

I'm 25 and have been divorced nearly 6 months.

We got together 5 years ago when I was 19 and very naive. He took advantage of me. I married him, because I thought it was right. I cared about him irregardless of what he did to me.

6 months have nearly passed, and I was just wondering.... Will I ever find someone meant for me? I've never been loved by a guy before. It would be a dream. I have a promise not to do anything sexual until the right marriafe and time comes...

My question... Do you have any words of hope? Should I date? Thx.

Answer 1

My advice for you would be to get smarter, stop feeling sorry for yourself, learn to know people's intention, their values and where they want to lead their lives. You'll find plenty of men, the trick is just finding one that shares your values.

Answer 2

I am in a similar situation. im really just taking the time to find out more about myself. I have been in relationships so long i have no idea what it is like on my own. Maybe you have expirienced the same thing. I think this is the best time to really rely on your close friends and family. Go on a vacation somware. Enjoy being single for a year or two. and if you truly feel like you are ready to get back into a relationship, take your time to find the one who truly treats you right! Follow your heart. as cheesy as it sounds it works :)



good luck!

Answer 3

I would say focus on yourself, get your life on track, have some fun.. love will find u at the right time.. focus on achieving those goals u put on hold.

Answer 4

forget the past and focus on the future, now you are matured with practical experience so your next relation will definitely be better

Answer 5

of course date! how will you ever find him? go slow and be decisive