humble submission of a request to all of you. please treat this like a poll and do kindly answer this question?

Question

with utmost sincerity and genuiness since this is a poll whose results i want to show to my husband about watching, downloading porn.

the question is as follows:

we have a good and healthy sex life as husband and wife. however husband still downloads and watches hard core, soft core, home made, all sortsa porn/sex stuff.when questioned he says this is normal for ALL MALES IN THIS UNIVERSE. A MAN WHO DOENST WATCH PORN IN ABNORMAL. now i want all the males in this community to vote/poll their view on this query of mine. is this true? or is this a lame duck excuse to just watch porn? despite having good sex, is it still okay to watch porn when the wife doenst appreciate it and disregards this?
PLEASE MEN, TAKE SOME TIME AND DO ANSWER THIS QUESTION WID ALL YOUR SINCERITY AND GENUINESS IF YOU WERE A HUSBAND WHO ENJOYED SEX WID WIFE AND DIDNT HAVE ANY TROUBLES WITH HER.WOULD YOU STILL WATCH AND DOWNLOAD PORN IRRESPECTIVE OF WHETHER WIFE CRIED AND DESPISED IT?? THANKS AND REGARDS

Answer 1

much of it depends on the man's age...men vary with that depending on his male hormone levels, some men can control themselves better then others, some need sex more often then others....as a man ages he find a lesser need for it, sex in itself is satisfying, but truthfully at a more youthful age some require both getting it and watching it......but what over rules everything is mutual respect, if a man's spouse takes offense to him watching then some attempt should be made to honor her wishes, especially if she is still sexually active with her husband

Answer 2

Just how to answer your question is difficult because it has many sides. Yes many men do watch porn, however if porn is causing trouble in your marriage and your husband is not addicted he should give it up for the sanctity of the marriage. What your spouse does not or may not realize is how it makes you feel and that is your job to explain, but I'll give it a shot. She feels like she is worthless to you, like she is not good enough for you. Porn is extremely addictive and has many adverse side effects. For instance how your wife feels is one, it can change your ideas of how one looks at the opposite sex and how you treat the one you love. If you find that you need to watch porn and you can’t give it up then you are addicted. On the other hand porn can also be a useful tool for spicing up your love life.

Answer 3

Yes, almost all men watch porn. I'm married with a great sex life, but I still watch porn. I keep it off the computer because my 2 boys are better at finding things on here than I am at hiding, tho.

Answer 4

Yes I watch porn and lots of it. I still love and have a good sex life with my wife. She watches porn as well and masterbates on her own time as well. I do not feel disrespected or even concerned that she thinks of others when having sex as I do. The bottom line we do it together and not feel like its a big deal. So get your toy out and join the fun.

Answer 5

Women open up to love and kindness...



Men are constantly ready to make love to females ... if this wasn't so the human race would quickly come to an end. The queue for our interest is visual. When we see the image of a willing partner we are sexually aroused and willing to make love.



If you want to have a happy relationship and fulfilling sex life you need to understand the difference between what turns men on vs what turns women on.



There is absolutely nothing abnormal with your husband's desire to look at porn etc. In fact it shows how good your relationship could be if you accept this fundemental truth. For his part he needs to tell he loves you and be kind to you. It would help you and your relationship if you stopped nagging him about his porn etc as he will feel guilty and build up resentment.



FashionGirlie magazines are the brain food of females and porn and looking at attractive women is the brain food of males. That is the nature of the human animal...



He needs to tell you he loves you and you need to look your best and sexiest at appropiate times.



I guarantee you will have the best relationship and a happy and fulfilling life if you listen to this advice....

Answer 6

i urge your pardon, i did no longer comprehend that answering a question is treating a guy or woman like a crap. A crappy questions gets a crappy solutions, thats the policies in this existence. Your being an honor student won't assist you to earnings admire from all and sundry,teach human beings the kind you opt to be dealt with ,by ability of posting sensible questions and solutions.

Answer 7

It's true lots of men and many women watch porn/