Should I think my husband cheated?

Question

I went out of town with my children for a week and upon my return I noticed he had been looking at local listings on craigslist for women seeking men, casual encounters and misc. romance. I went further into history and saw all the one's he had looked at for services.
I confronted him and he said he was bored and would never act on it.
I then looked in history further today and saw that he searched for local Brothel houses!! I dont know what to think. He has never made me doubt him. I had this bad feeling while I was away and when I first saw him he didn't even hug me and I felt he was not very affectionate with me and got a weird vibe before I found all that.
Should I think he cheated or was he really just curiosly bored?

Answer 1

He never gave you reason, but you just happened to be checking up on him? Maybe he went to those sites to see if you have been snooping on him. Now he knows. Good job at being a typical woman.

Answer 2

yes and no,looking on the internet is one thing. shoot I've looked through craigslist just out of curiosity. however I would be more worried about how he treated you when you got home. maybe you can use this to spice up the sex life. get the kids to sleepovers and then play "brothel worker" lol it might be fun

Answer 3

Now Now Everyone... he was probably bored as hell and thats all men think about anyways and u werent there for him and he prolly made a dumb choice by doing and especially not to delete the history but, thats what makes me think it was innocent, tasteless but i wouldnt worry too much about it unless his strange behavior seems to last.

Answer 4

He's up to no good.....most bored men will watch innocent porn....not go on craigslist or go checking brothel houses.

Answer 5

He's more than likely just fantasizing about other women. The big question here is...why? Are you fulfilling him sexually? That maybe why he's "looking around". If there is no food in the refridgerator, you will need to eat out.

Answer 6

just the fact that he was searching would upset me I would probably feel like he did cheat, this is more serious than porn he is looking for actual women to meet up with

Answer 7

when you go on outing let your husband join you together with the children. your husband is a type of person that get bored easily..do not allow it to happen. learn from your experience.

Answer 8

He such a pathetic assh*le. And yes, time for STD checks on both of you. Insist on getting a copy of his results from him. Or dump his a**.

Answer 9

he either already cheated, or has it all planned out. intuition can tell u allot, u should always listen to it.it rarely is wrong. being bored wouldn't cause him to show disinterest in u, but another woman in your marriage would.

Answer 10

Well this mite sound rlly stupid but marriage councling! haha its rlly stupid and such but some ppl say it wrks! not me anywayz jst confront him again saying its rlly strting to wrry u! hope i helped!

Answer 11

i think u shouldn't jump to conclusions but if he was looking at other famles that means he was thinking about it for a while now ... and may be he is losing interest

Answer 12

I would make him get tested before he ever touches you again and check your cc rec and bank statements.

Answer 13

I don't know what you "should" think... go with what is in your gut! Your instinct is the best feeling you can rely on.

Answer 14

eblaster.



it records every key stroke.. everything he types... you need further proof and if he fcuked those whores, you need to kick him out to the streets.

Answer 15

I agree. I would trust your gut instinct.

Answer 16

investigate he might cheat on you for your entire life and you may not know

Answer 17

show him his history maybe and talk seriously about it.

Answer 18

NOW says all men are pigs, thus all men cheat....