Need immediate advice to take decision, kindly advice?

Question

Hi my wife has illicit relationship with her bro in law (sisters husband), she has been very cruel to me, has no emotional as well as physical relations with me.
Am living a lonely life, however, I love my kid most… she has put the options that I need to swallow if I want to continue else to give her divorce.
They are financially very strong, all her fly members with her only. I eat outside, I spend all the time lonely. She spends time with her bro in law, sleeps with me, all the fun on whats app n so on
Kindly advice friends…

Answer 1

OK first of I am 72



OK here my advice



Tomorow see a lawyer and get your divorce

She cannot stop you from having your son



Ask for joint custody



NO judge will refuse your right as a father



Your life is a real hell



You deserve so much better



and do not let her black mailing affecting your decision to leave this monster for good

Answer 2

Charges of adultery are very serious and most difficult to be proved in the court, as far the acts of cruelty are concerned for obtaining divorce these charges too be serious enough to hold the marriage broken down to the extend it has become difficult to be restored back to normal, hence the best course in such situation is to get the opposite spouse agree for divorce by mutual consent after settling the issues of child custody, alimony and maintenance in an amicable manner.

Your child of 7 years year is most important issue and his future is most important for all purposes, your wife is a gone case as without releasing anything about the child she is more interested in her sex play with her own brother in law. It is your parental responsibility to take over complete care and responsibility of the minor child and provide visitation for child to the wife/mother.

As far the issue of alimony and maintenance is concerned, your wife has job or any other source of income/property in her name, she will not be entitled for claiming any financial compensation from you, yes a rich brother in law can also provide her financial support as a compensation for his sexual enjoyed with her.

Nothing positive will be achieved unless there is a mutual settlement of the matrimonial dispute.

Answer 3

If you are unhappy then fix your marriage or end it...or stay in the marriage and live a separate life, as your wife is doing (that doesn't sound like a satisfactory option, though).

Answer 4

Sounds miserable. Why not go ahead and divorce her and get out of that mess. You'd be happier in the long run.

Answer 5

i recommend go get that divorce and push for joint custody no one should live in this hell I would of took my kid and went out of the country by now

Answer 6

Take revenge by sleeping with her sister

Answer 7

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