Couple married in Pakistan;fixed marriage;four children conceived; husband wants divorce,wife don't. Chancds?

Question

Pakistan couple in fixed marriage; husband wants divorce;wife doesn't;four kids; how can he get divorce? Best and fastest way to obtain this divorce?? They were seperated for awhile;
we fell in love and he wants to marry me in USA.
I didn' know about family until about 1 monthh ago. He kept secret.But now that I know , he said he still wants divorce and to be wiht me?!
I love him ,even knowing all this. Can someone help me(us) him???

Answer 1

a man can divorce his wife but will have to settle dowry terms.

ask a mufti.

Answer 2

Sex is still the best and easiest way to make a baby. Conception of a child is a natural and normal outcome of sex between a healthy man and a healthy woman of child-bearing age. If you take your birth control pill every day and still get pregnant, that was a chance you assumed when you started having sex. The insert on the pill package clearly details the odds of conception, so it was always a possibility. Also, your dr. should have explained it carefully, but I know some women get the pill from clinics and never really have an in-depth conversation with a dr., so they might miss the message. So...you loved your husband and you very much wanted to have sex with your husband, knowing that there was a chance of conceiving a child -- why be surprised when you do conceive? Why be upset that your body is perfectly healthy and can conceive a child? Why be upset that your husband's body works perfectly as well? Why be upset that the intense love you have for your partner is now physically manifest in a child, for all the world to see? Why be frustrated that your husband, whom you love, has offspring? Why be so upset that you're willing to kill the ongoing physical union of your love -- your very own child? EDITED TO ADD: Am I getting TDed because I said sex is still the easiest and best way to conceive a child? Or because I asked why somebody who had sex with the love of their lives would be upset about their love manifesting in the conception of a child?

Answer 3

listen Sis, am a pakistani too, the situation u are facing is quite complicated one side a man who is not trust worthy and on the other hand its ur heart which loves him... I just want to say that he is already married and have 4 kids but when he met u, he felt in love with U and today he is agreed to left his family for ur sake, what is the gurantee that after 10 years when u have 4 babies he wont left you alone for some other girl... just try to forget him.. say him clearly that u can live without him... and u will noticed after a couple of weeks or months he wont called u even forget your name too... :( plzzzz this is a right time to take a steo do wirte me ... what u thought .. i will wait :)

Answer 4

Does his family also reside in USA ?

Does he have a american citizenship ?



Well he keeping his marriage in secret itself is wrong.

You need to know his intentions. He might want to just immigrate to USA taking you as a pawn. Once he has citizenship he will ditch you. Just like he is saying he loves you he will say it to someone else.



DOes he love you for a reason ? You will need to be very articulate to ask this questions without him knowing what you trying to achieve.