should i marry this guy ? is there any chance he will change?

Question

about me: i am a muslim girl , i never had any bf or even male friends , i live a very simple life
about him: he had various relationships in past , he is a alcoholic , he stares every second girl , and changes his gf's too often
his family and my family had a clash since 20 yrs suddenly they became very good and he has proposed me , he says he will leave all bad habbits
should i believe him?

Answer 1

Probably not... sudden change? Doesn't seem likely to last. If you're in love with him and determined to make it work, make it a long engagement. Make him prove to you that he really has changed. You shouldn't judge him by his actions right now, but by how he's been the entire time you've known him.



Sandra Bullock truly thought Jesse James had changed his bad boy ways... and it turned out that he was sleeping with a bunch of other women behind her back. You don't want to end up like her.

Answer 2

You stated that he's an alcoholic. Do you really want to take that on? The intention to "leave all bad habits" is one thing, but you should get to know him better to see if he actually commits to getting help with his alcoholism.

Also, you don't even state whether you like him as a person. If you don't know him, how can you begin to build trust with him?

You need to meet more men your age to get a feel for how well men can treat you. It's really not up to the parents--they're not about to say yes to him. Don't settle, grow.

Answer 3

No. Don't believe him, and don't expect him to change. You know he has these problems, why voluntarily choose to get involved with it? Run, don't walk, away from this man.

Answer 4

NO!!! Do NOT marry this man. Why would you even consider this?

Answer 5

bad habits are hard to erase. the risk is high.

Answer 6

ya anam abos edk blash ))

Answer 7

If you are in doubt don't get married.

Answer 8

No. He is what he is. You can not change him.

Answer 9

No. You'll regret it.