What would you do if your Doctor told you that you should leave your spouse?

Question

ok here is the story. My wife went to a new doctor today. she has been having some issues with her health. she was in the ER a few months ago and the ER doctor said that her blood sugar was really high, she should be tested for diabetes. so she goes into this new doctors office. a Female doctor, an Indian doctor. not that is matters. but they did a urine test and a standard CBC and said you don't have diabetes. ummm am I wrong or is a CBC panel not enough to diagnose diabetes? I thought you needed to fast for a day and then have a glucose tolerance test. am I wrong? anyways there's that. and then the doctor starting asking her some question. asked. based on those questions My wife said that the doctor thinks she should be tested for Bi-Polar disorder. then when asked about her home life she told the doctor about me. I have some health issues and cant work right now and the government has denied my disability. ok yeah that's stressful. of course it is. but because of that this doctor told my wife " oh that's your problem right there " asked her is she stayed with me out of guilt or love. basically told her to leave me to fix her health problems. ok sure my situation is stressful it would be for anyone, but its not my fault I got sick. but this is the solution the doctor comes up with? she goes in because the ER doctors thing she has diabetes. they give her some half *** Blood test. almost as if they were just going through the motions in my opinion. and then without knowing anything more about me other then the fact I have health issues she recommends that my wife leave me? seriously What the hell kind of crap is that? i'm ranting here a little but i'm sure you get an idea of the situation. I really don't know what to make of this. is this doctor just a total shrewd and hates men or something? or did my wife tell this doctor more then she is admitting to in order for her to draw that conclusion? this is what's on my mind right now and its making me pretty upset. What's you view on all this?

Answer 1

I suppose I'd tell him that he doesn't have the slightest clue as to what 'COMMITMENT' is and I'd tell him to--------Go. Get. Bent.



Then, I'd find me a new doctor that was actually interested in HELPING.



There are doctors who take a more natural approach to healing, and in my own personal experience, they are far better than some yuppie fv(k job who relies on big pharma to line their check.



You see, big pharmaceutical companies do not make a profit on HEALTHY people......they make a profit on SICK people.

Answer 2

A cbc does not determine diabetes. She does have to go thru a glucose tolerance test,and a fasting blood test as well. They have you go to the lab and stay there and drink a liquid solution like 4 times while she is there. Like one batch every hour. She needs to find another doctor. Are you sure that is what the doctor told her? Maybe she is just saying that for an easy way out so she can leave you without feeling any guilt. I would go to the doctor's with her next time to find out for sure.

Answer 3

Doctors dont normally place themselves in the personal affairs of there patients. It would take some doing for a professional to set outside of protocol/ everyday standards to lend a personal or honest opinion that wasnt medically founded. It takes a lot for them to do that, law suits as they arte it just doesnt normally happen. Your wife seems to be the main focus of this whole journey and what has been said behind closed doors must remain as such, due to confidenuality laws etc. you know the rules, so lets logically look at what is before you. You need to not go outside of yourself for answers because this although giving a semblance of outside drama is really something very easy to understand and place, if that is where your real motivations lye. You have a wife that loves you, you love her - anything else is secondary including finances and medical issues. Does she actually want to leave you... why dont you sit her down and ask her , your both adults. A quiet dinner a comfortable place, your both adults at this point ... so do yourself a favor, and ask the question. What any doctor says doesnt mean anything untill one of you makes it mean something so dont get bent out of shape until she does, keep your cool and you might find its water under a bridge and if not time will tell anyway. We are given someone to love and when that love dies , for what ever reason, it usually means God needs that soul somewhere else. Trying to hold onto it is like trying to keep water from slipping form between your fingers, its a waste a time, so allow life to do what life is going to do anyway , its not even your choice never was. Love for as long as you can , smile even when your heart is confused * FIRM UPPPER LIP - For when the river meets the rain, ~ its all water under the bridge anyway, so why not enjoy it while you can. Remember, if God moves something out of the way, its to move somerthing better in your way ~ always, always, remember that. : )

Answer 4

no longer accusing right here. too plenty is merely out of place. She went into surgical operation together as in consumer-friendly / AIT? replaced into sent back to her place of birth? replaced into no longer considered at a militia Facility? Madigan scientific facility is sweet there at feet. Lewis, they might carry out pretty much any surgical operation required by using every person. It merely isn't clicking. I even have served 14 yewars and righ now serve on a coaching installation. we don't deliver infantrymen living house for surgical operation. i'm guessing she went living house on her Con go away of her very own accord. If a professional replaced into required, the army would have sent her there and then had a return fee ticket back. If airline does not have allowed her on the airplane then you definately could have referred to as her command at modern AND gained a written memo from the Airline that she would be no longer able to fly. there is merely too plenty lacking right here. the army takes impressive care of it relatively is very own. they do no longer merely throw a Soldier out to a well being center and say "see you in six days."

Answer 5

" did my wife tell this doctor more then she is admitting to in order for her to draw that conclusion? this is what's on my mind right now and its making me pretty upset."



Do you suspect your wife spilled a "secret" or two? Yes, you do. So there is much more to this story. The fact that you chose "admitting" in regards to how you grilled your wife about this suggests that you have secrets you fear have been exposed. In fact, it seems to be your major concern here.

Answer 6

Stay far from that evil - doctor.