Could you handle being married to an actor?

Question

Seeing your wife or husband kissing and doing love scenes with other actors? Would it be too hard to see the love your life acting those things out with someone else?

Would you worry that your own relationship with the actor such as the love making/ kissing does not look as passionate as how it is depicted in the movies and theatre?

Answer 1

I think at first it would freak me out, but I would also have to take into consideration that that's their job.



I think if you were to listen to a lot of actors talk about love scenes, it's not as sexy as it comes across on film.

The hands have to be placed just right, the lighting has to be just so, the hair and make up has to be a certain way, the sound, making sure the back ground still appears the same frame after frame.

It seems that love scenes take longer to produce than an action shot.

Answer 2

My college buddy is married to an actor. What you describe is the least of her concerns. What is hard is that to be a good actor, you usually are a tad self-absorbed. It takes a strong person to take the amount of rejection that most actors have to deal with until they have 'made it.' In addition, women are always throwing themselves at the good looking or popular actors, so temptation is always there.



An actual kissing scene isn't particularly romantic for an actor, btw. Not with 50 people telling you what to do. Even harder is just raising a family in S.Calif when your values don't mesh with those around you.

Answer 3

Well it seems to me that the majority of actors can't stay married very long. Perhaps you should just live together. But seriously, it would not bother me because that is their "job." In fact I would be sure to volunteer to rehearse the scenes with them before they took off for the studio!

Answer 4

When I was young I always dreamed of being married to Charlie Sheen..I know it's messed up...anyhow, I used to think I would want that and now all I want is some man who can't keep his hands off me. Best wishes

Answer 5

It's not the "love scenes" that would turn me off - it's the essential lack of privacy when it comes to being in show biz. I'm a very private person, and would have a hard time making that compromise.

Answer 6

Considering how often those actors have affairs with the co-workers, NO- I could not be married to an actor.

Answer 7

It is a job and wouldn't worry me. I just don't understand why women aren't actresses anymore and are actors. What is wrong with saying they are actresses??? An actor is a male to me...

Answer 8

Depends if he is trustworthy... and if he is a good actor, which would explain how much better his lovemaking is when he is acting. I probably would use those skills for myself and buy a camera for the bedroom!

Answer 9

I couldn't and wouldn't try to handle it. Fact is I don't think many can handle it which is why the divorce rate among them is so high.

Answer 10

I cannot handle being married