i m married but i hav a boyfriend is it a problem.?

Question

i m maarried n having 2 children. i use to work in a bank. i dialled a wrong num. he appreciated my voice. we b came frds. in starting we didnt tel each othr dat v r married. but after sum time we told......
now i m gettin attracted towards him alot. we hav meet once. he doesnt cal or msg himself. i only take initiative.but if i say lets stop talking n get away. he disagrees wid it. if i say y dnt u cal me, he replies dat he is too much busy, cnt talk to his wife even.
he says i can giv my life but cnt stop talking to u. if i call him to meet he says y u dugging a well fr urself. he doesnt cal or msg me,but says we are gud frds, i dnt love u, can gv lyf fr u. he says he has list of frds, but i m special 1. pls suggest me a path

Answer 1

DUMP THE RASCAL IN THE DUSTBIN OR OTHERWISE YOUR FAMILY IS GOING TO DUMP YOU VERY SOON . HOW CAN YOU DO THIS . ARE YOU BORED OF YOUR HUSBAND . WHAT ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN . WHAT WRONG DID THEY DO EXCEPT THAT THEY ARE BORN TO YOU .

IF YOU DONT GET ENOUGH LOVE OR SEX FROM YOUR HUSBAND , YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO CALL YOUR ELDERS AND TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS . IF NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS THEN IF YOU THINK YOU CAN STAND ON YOUR OWN LEGS AND IF YOUR CHILDREN ALSO SUPPORT YOU , WHY DONT YOU DIVORCE YOUR HUSBAND AND GO AND SEEK FOR A NEW HUSBAND WHO WILL UNDERSTAND YOU AND WILL APPRECIATE YOU .

RIGHT NOW , YOU ARE JUST ONE STEP AWAY FROM ADULTERY ? I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW COULD YOU BE SO CONSIDERATE FOR A STRANGER THAN FOR YOUR OWN CHILDREN .

YOU YOURSELF ARE TELLING YOU HAVE DIALLED THE WRONG NUMBER , I THINK YOU HAVE DIALLED THE WRONG PERSON . IF YOU WANT YOU CAN ALSO GIVE ME YOUR EMAIL SO THAT I WILL ALSO PRAISE YOU THAT YOU ARE THAT AND THIS , ATLEAST BY PRAISING I WILL SATISFY YOUR EGO BUT AT THE SAME TIME I WILL NOT BE A HOME-WRECKER .

"FORBIDDEN FRUIT IS MORE SWEET BUT YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO DIGEST THE CONSEQUENCES OF IT " . WHAT HAS HAPPENED HAS HAPPENED START YOUR LIFE AFRESH BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE . ATLEAST FOR YOUR CHILDREN SAKE . EVEN I AM A SINNER BUT AT LEAST I DONT HAVE CHILDREN LIKE YOU . SIN MEANS HURTING SOMEBODY IN ONE WAY OR OTHER . HERE YOU ARE HURTING YOUR OWN CHILDREN . GO AND LOOK FOR A GOOD FRIEND WHO WILL APPRECIATE YOUR TALENTS . NOT YOUR BODY . BYE .

Answer 2

Why would you want to be in such a relationship?? Let him go and get back to your life. It is not so bad to have a boyfriend even if you are married but than it should be something that makes you feel good and not makes you miserable. You are going down a road that can only lead you in your own frustration. Think of your 2 children and also think what you would do if your husband has a similar story going. Would you like it?? Is such a guy worth all this stress and pain?? If you have a boyfriend just for a little excitement outside marriage it is not so bad but this one sounds so complicated that it is not worth the effort. Let him go my dear and relax. There are many fish in the sea.

Answer 3

You are going in the wrong way. First your thoughts become dirty, then words, now at anytime that dirt will attack your actions also. You are married and have 2 children. What the hell you are going to do with your life? You are hurting the feeling of everybody related to you. Your husband and your children also. You know Love and Money cannot hide for a long time. One day you will get exposed and do you know what people will call your children. Think about it. Man is always like that. They will try to make women flat with the help of flattery. Don't fall on that. Start love your hubby and be a good wife. All love you missed from your life you will get back.



I will say a story to you. Once there was a couple. They where staying with his mother. MIL and DIL were not in good terms. When the problem become very serious the daugher in law went to her house and asked her father whether a poison will be available in order to kill the Mother In Law. Father replied "If you will give poison everybody will suspect and it is not good for you" " I will give you a slow poison and you have to give one tablet a day to your MIL" but on one condition. In order to convince other people, you have to pretend that you love her a lot and give her good food also.



The daughter in law acted as per her father's instruction and start giving slow poison and she pretended that she loves her MIL a lot. After two months this daughter in law came to her father with a desperate manner and asked to the father " dady how I can get rid of that poison from my MIL's body". Father exclaimed and asked "why". The daughter said. Now I love my MIL more than that of my mother because she loves me more than that of her daugher. The the father replied that news I was waiting for. The tablet that I gave to you were only vitamin tabs. So don't worry your MIL will be more okey from now and then.



The message is If you give love you will get it back. Give your love to your hubby and children you will get multifold in return. Forget the false appreciation and go ahead with your life.

Answer 4

sure....its you're "friend" were talking about. BS we both know its you, because if it was really your friend you wouldn't take the trouble to put this on Answers My advice: date this guy, don't let him "have you". See how he is first as a boy friend. If you find that you really love him, keep dating him. If he wants you just for sex, dump his worthless carcass and find a guy with some real relationship value.

Answer 5

Why yu want to have affairs with another man when yu husband is near to yu.I advice yu not to cheat yu hubby and entangle yuself with all the problems.Forget that fellow and kick him out of yu life soon otherwise yu path will go to the grave.

Answer 6

Leave him asap....... U r a married girl, search ur happiness in ur husband, in ur childs.. just imageine, if ur husband may know everything abt. u, then wht could be happen...... hav u ever think abt. that??? This will impact so badly on ur childs...... ur life will be ruin. then this so called guy, will not help you in any way....... just leave that guy and concentrate on your family and work........ all the best dear.......plz dont make ur life so worst and regretful....

Answer 7

its a love,love very Beautiful heaven.if u think about i can continue both of them u cant do that but u hav 2 give 1st importance 2 ur husband,ur children.now in love u r thinking about ur BF.dont think about him bcoz he hav wife u hav husband think about ur child.

Ur love is very importance for ur husband nd ur children.Dont lieve them bcoz if ur BF is going 2 lieve u 4ever than who is going 2 Sport u.than who is going 2 call u mom,mom,mom,mom,mom, dear friend dont believe on ur BF.U can believe on ur husband nd ur child nd also ur parents.go nd tell ur BF im not going with u in my life my love is only my husband nd my 2kids





my self PRADEEP

FROM MUMBAI.

Answer 8

no there is no problem becoz its good for your marrige life but try to do'nt blind on your boy fnd... becoz it will creat u problem ...and i dont think so that u want this .....and try to talk with u r husband not as a wife as a frnd if he is a nice doooodddd then he can solve ur problem

Answer 9

friend, you yourself know the answer. this is not love, just attraction for the time being that too will vanish soon.this road will lead to nowhere. in fact , u will loose whatever you have, till date. keep the respect of yours intact in front of your kids, hubby and above all yourself. where will you reach after falling down in your own eyes?

Answer 10

I refuse to believe that typing this sort of gibberish is easier or quicker than typing proper English.

Answer 11

You are preparing to dismantle your peaceful family life. I never suggest you to go ahead like this. Please just have a talk with that guy and slowly reduce talking with him. Do not spoil your real life in flirting.

Answer 12

I know dat love can not be planed its happened wif anybody an same happened to u. pls come online on yahoo [e-mail] seriously

Answer 13

as per u, anybody can fall in love.............but if u r in teen age or below 21-23 its OK to think like that, i have one gf & more 3-4 girls i like most..........this saying are for those who are not mature........



about ur case, u r mature & have good husband with lovely 2 children s...........if u behave like this what they will take from u in future & what u will teach them in ur life.............it will be good, if u stay with that guy as phone friend as per he also said u.........so please don't think only about ur self, u don't have any rights to behave in this manner..........



enjoy ur healthy, wealthy, & prosperous life which is build on trust, faith & pure love.



i think, this much is enough to u, to explain about ur happily married life with gentle husband & 2 little champs, which is ur future "The Real Life"............"JAY SADGURU"

Answer 14

shikha, pagal ho gayee hai, subse acha dost husband hota hai, agar husband se pyaar nahi milta to phir theek hai, agar woh sahi raste pe hai to apne liye narg "HELL" pasand mat karo, jus love ur kids, and ur hubby, b coz the future of your kids is upto u, dont spoil the future of ur kids, and also life of ur hubby, yeh sub individual person k liye theek hai, hindustani auratoon k liye "PATI PARMESHWAR" parmeshwar se badha hota hai

Answer 15

Can you talk in correct grammar instead of abbreviations?

Answer 16

go to school and learn how to properly type!!

Answer 17

u r inviting problems for u . do not keep relations but enjoy it .

Answer 18

I can't imagine you being a banker?.......... In your case, i'm just wondering...........who is blind, dumb or stupid!

Answer 19

this path goes directly in the well. n i can c there a big hell.

Answer 20

You are going in a trouble "path"! Please get rid of quickly!

Answer 21

please continue