Why does it feel like cheaters always get to live happily ever after? Does Karma get them?

Question

Why does it feel like cheaters always get to live happily ever after while the faithful person gets burned and suffers....
You can see this with divorce cases...
A faithful man will lose half of his stuff while a cheating wife will get money and new man
or faithful wife is tuck with the kids and has to doulbe time it to provide for them while the unfaithful husband or boyfriend gets the new woman..

Why is that?
do cheaters always live happily ever after?

Will god avenge your pain from the other person who wronged you in the relationship?

Answer 1

yes!! my ex cheated on me while I was pregnant and got another girl pregnant....but he married her.



He died a year ago....he just found out he was going to be a father again went out got wasted and ran into a tree.



He had lots of women in his life that loved him but he always wanted more.





yes, I really do have a crazy jerry springer life.

Answer 2

Cheaters do end up getting theirs, it may not be right away, but it will happen.



I knew a man. He cheated on every girlfriend he ever dated in his entire life. He would use his cheating as a way to break up his relationships, because he was too much of a pussy to be alone. He later got married and screwed around behind his wife's back starting after 3rd month of marriage. All the women he picked were always the same type that would stay quiet and not tell his wife, even after he dump them. Until he met this woman, who found out he was lying to her about being separated. So she told his wife and told everyone he worked with about his indiscretions. He was a HS teacher. He lost his wife, his job and is now bankrupt. I think Karma or his luck finally ran out.

Answer 3

I know what you mean like when my ex boyfriend cheated on me and he found a girlfriend I saw how happy they both were while am at home crying and being depressed!



but I do know that Karma will get them soon or later it may not be now but it will get them! and cheaters that do cheat they may be happy but in the long run Karma is going to come haunt them and they won't be happy for long so I would say that Cheaters don't life a happy life because of what they did to hurt a love one like that!

Answer 4

in dont believe in the saying "what goes around comes around". i call it a comfort statement bc both good and bad things happen to both good and bad people. but the truth here is that tha actual facts will be used against them later on. think about it..the man cheat on his wife with some woman right? wife finds out, they get a divorce and the wife is left at home with the kids while the husband is out with his new "exciting" fling. well he doesnt realize what he just did. he messed up completely. see, his marriage was real, that love was real, it was enetered into with hoensty and pure love. memories were made and shared...loyatly existed and now...bc of him is ruined. when the divorce is finalized and he thinks everything is fine and dandy with his new chick...ha little does he know. this new girl will NEVER trust him bc if he did it to his own WIFE why wouldnt he do it to her??? right? she will give him a hard time about everything and anything and he wont trust her bc what kind of a woman sleeps with a married man? shes singlke for a reason...she must be promiscuous. they wont trust eachother (and rightfully so) and eventually their stupid fling will come to an end. or they live miserably tgether and hide it from others bc they r embarassed. they want to appear happy...but theyre not.



this is how it works....ive seen it. i personally havent gotten there (in a marriage at least) and hopefully never will. but i know what it feels like to be left for another girl. it hurts...they seem happy but i always see how it turns out. they come crawling back and im not for it or they just miserably search for the next whore...eh.



i hope you enjoyed all of that. so if someone cheated on u...screw them!!!! cheaters suck!!!!! and please always know.. they are NEVER as happy as they try to appear. take care. :-)

Answer 5

Karma will eventually get them, but you never know when. I know of a 67 year old who cheated in her 30's. After she left her family for the man with whom she was cheating with, they lived happily for a while, but now not so good, she is constantly accusing her partner of cheating on her (he isn't) she is feeling like this because he isn't very intimate with her, no cuddles, kisses and no sex. It's like she has become very insecure and her partner has become frigid or something?

It might seem as though the cheaters have it all but only for a while, because karma will eventually get you.

Answer 6

I defenitely see your point on this one, and in some cases I would agree w/ what your saying. But then there are some cheaters who really regret doing it and lose the one person they claimed they loved the most. Before I was married I was cheated on by my boyfriend of two years... I left him but he was so dramatic and "distraught" over me leaving... like he had any right to be huh?!?! But after that I met my now husband who I have 2 beautiful daughters with and makes me very happy... and my ex is still single at the age of 34 (so my mom says) she knows him. He was older then me (I'm now 28) and he cheated w/ someone who was older then him... so there goes that theory of "men wanting younger women" haha... so the moral to my story is, I turned out to be the happy one :D

Answer 7

Well it seems that way, but I would never know that since I am always the one suffering in those situations, maybe not marrige since I am not old enough, but I hope it does!



Once some one stoled my most valuable possetion and I still don't see karma around

Answer 8

Snickerdoodle I thought we cleared this up yesterday lol

well just believe cheater never prosper lol I do think that karma

comes back to them lol

Answer 9

one thing is cheaters never trust anyone cause no one can trust them relationships created from a cheating situation often don't last and if they do trust is always their main issue so yes you could say karma gets you...

Answer 10

leave the spiritual side for a moment... cheaters will logically find real life consequences. For example, when a student cheats on a test and doesn't get caught, he doesn't learn anything and it will negatively effect his life later on.



It just seems that they have everything right, but consequences haunts them sooner of later...

Thanks

Answer 11

I don't believe in "Karma" , that is a religious thing..and i don't get into that word. I believe that based on your actions, there will always be consequences. And there will be, it doesn't mean that the person who has been wronged is going to see the other person getting what they deserve. That's life.

Answer 12

Firstly God doesn't punish you - he gave us free-will it's our responsibility to exercise that with caution. He's the one who is doing all the forgiving. Well to answer your question my friend, I think there are reasons for everything in life .. life is complex on so many levels.



Instead of putting all your energy on how it's not fair that they are not miserable (when you feel they should be) =] How about focusing ur energy on you and how you feel glad that you are not in such a position and wish them the best!

Answer 13

I dont believe in Karma I used to but now I dont becuase If you belive in it then Karma will happen to you

Answer 14

(Psalm 37:1-4) Do not show yourself heated up because of the evildoers. Do not be envious of those doing unrighteousness. For like grass they will speedily wither, And like green new grass they will fade away. Trust in Jehovah and do good; Reside in the earth, and deal with faithfulness. Also take exquisite delight in Jehovah, And he will give you the requests of your heart.

Answer 15

Karma will get them eventually, then they'll be the ones unhappy and suffering.

Answer 16

Cheaters don't live happily, deep down they are burning because they know they are sinning

Answer 17

they think they are happy & blessed..

but they live happy for a little time..



but they suffer in a long run..



GOD never sleep & deaf when we need HIM..

HE always teach HIS people when they done something

bad..

Answer 18

god does not like ugly and they one you think live happily ever they go through their own private hell some of us are not privy to see but don't let those looser take your joy trust me

Answer 19

one can never get away without paying the karma debt

Answer 20

yeah karma is the best...all whoremongers you have a place in hell....