Secrets and Fantasies?

Question

Should you share all your secrets and fantasies with your significant other even if it involves being with other males/females? Is this healthy?

Answer 1

No. Best to keep quiet with things that would hurt him/her.

Answer 2

That all depends on the person. If your significant other would get mad or hurt, I would say keep it to yourself. If your significant other wouldnt care, go for it! lol.. I dont think that keeping secrets from your significant other is really a good thing, but alot of people do. As far as the fantasies go.. most people have fantasies, so I would say that is pretty normal. But, like I said, it all depends on the person.

Answer 3

I went threw this with my own expierence and I don't think it's good for the relationship to share your secrets such as who you slept with in the past because they'll bring it up in your face all the time what happens in the past stays in the past but as for your fantasies I dont't see why not but it also depends on the person and what kind of fantasies they are well good luck

Answer 4

Sharing secrets is bad idea, when you share secret then it is not secret. Fantasies should be your private too unless you want your partner to participate in them so they can not be excluding.

Answer 5

I share my Fantasies, But not all my Secrets.



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Answer 6

NO. Although some will say yes and that it will boost your sex life, it just might bite you in the ### later! This Fantasy may cause curiosity that leads to something else. Keep it in your head!

Answer 7

It depends on your partner. Do they share theirs, and encourage you to share yours? This can be exciting. It will take your relationship to a new place. You have to be prepared your partner is willing to accept such secrets, and if he/she isn't comfortable, the relation may end.

If you are the type whom needs to share these things, you need someone willing to accept you as you are.

Answer 8

Hard to say---if it sounds like something that would weird someone out, I'd say edit the fantasy and keep the strange to yourself!

Answer 9

I believe you should be as open with your partner as you are with yourself... I also believe there are some things you should keep to yourself as well...I think its good to explore and to live out your fantasies with your partner....I think it would bring you more closer and imtimate with the person you love and share your life with.........

Answer 10

If it involved others, those secrets and fantsasies are best kept to yourself.

Answer 11

It should be kept a secret. It has produced some bad feelings in my realtionship.

Answer 12

I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as it doesn't hit too close to home. If I told my wife, "I really want to bang your niece," then she might rightly get upset with me. But if we spend an hour talking about the latest People Magazine's 50 Most Beautiful issue, and then go have hot monkey sex, there's nothing wrong with that at all.

Answer 13

nope keep the fantasies to yourself!

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