Question about a lingerie receipt I was probably never meant to see!?

Question

I looked through my husband's wallet( I don't trust him) & found a receipt from Victoria's Secret. It was folded up & inside of it was 4 tags that had been taken off the lingerie. He bought 3 thongs & a bra. The receipt was dated January. I confronted him about this & he said he had bought them for me. I asked him why he never gave them to me & he said he didn't think I would like them so he took them back. I told him that they wouldn't take back lingerie w/ no tags & he said they told him as long as he had the receipt. I said "so why is the receipt still here then?" And there are no markings on the receipt or anything. I also looked at the bra size & it was 36D. I'm a 34B. So my question is( even though I'm pretty sure I already know the answer) would they really take back those items w/ the tags removed & also not keep the receipt or at least mark it? And, isn't there a bit of a difference in a 36D & 34B or is it possible to make that mistake when trying to judge size?

Answer 1

there are 3 answers that can be true...



1. when trying to judge the size of the bra it possible to make a mistake i'm a 38D and i sometimes grab a 36B



2. he has a girl on the side



3. he likes to wear lady's underwear.



BUT stores like Victoria's Secret will NOT take back lingerie w/ no tags & even IF you have the receipt.

Answer 2

VS will take returns for up to 90 days with a receipt.

From their website (this is for web purchases, could not find a store return policy)

We take great pride in our reputation for quality and excellent value. If for any reason you are dissatisfied with a purchase, we'll assist you with a prompt refund or exchange. No sale is final.



Refunds for items returned within ninety days of the purchase date will be credited in the same form as the original payment type.



Refunds for items returned more than ninety days after the purchase date will be in the form of a merchandise credit redeemable with your next purchase.



I assume they would take back a bra (with no obvious signs of wear) if THE TAGS WERE RETURNED WITH THE BRA. They wouldn't take it back without tags at all. As for the thongs, I don't know of ANY store that will accept underwear (unless packaged in plastic and unopened) to be returned. I know in PA, they state that they cannot accept underwear returns BY LAW. Any store that takes a return based on the receipt will mark the receipt items as returned, to prevent stolen items from being exchanged for cash with a legitimate receipt.

As for the sizing - my husband couldn't buy me a bra if you paid him to, so I don't know about that. Depending on the bra, a mistake could be made. Some of my bras look a LOT bigger than others.

But, based on your other questions... I think you already know all these answers.

Answer 3

You have asked multiple questions on here concerning your cheating husband over the past couple of weeks. Dozens of people have told you he is a cheater and a liar; and you have obviously not listened to anyones opinion.



I have worked in retail before, retail stores will not take back tagless merchandise, and the receipt would definitely be marked in some way. A store such as VS requires proof of purchase due to high volumes of theft. It is unfortunate, but the retail world requires this type of security and proof of purchase.



If you truly want help, you need to get yourself out of this marriage, he is cheating on you.



When you talked about your son going to another ladys house and out to a resturant, that should have been a warning sign. Hire a lawyer and kick this cheater to the curb. He moved you back to your parents home to get you out of the way, so he would be less likely to be caught.



I wish you and your child or children the best of luck.

Answer 4

My friend jasmine and I were just at VS the other day and she was attempting to return a "not so cute" piece that her husband had bought her for V-tines day. As a gift, her had removed the tags and she didnt want to offfened him by asking for the tags (she had reciept oo i believe) and the would NOT take them back. That answers your initial question. As for unsolicited advice i offer none, but you know what is going on here. I am sooo sorry, you sure dont deserve this treatment.

Answer 5

You have your husband in a corner. No Victoria's nor anyone else will take underclothes back with out reciepts and tags and would be reluctant to do so anyway simply because they are "underwear." Your husband needs to come clean and tell you who the other women is. Good Luck.

Answer 6

There is a huge difference in size there that is like comparing skinny and fat. Wow you already know the answer just want other to confirm your thoughts. I also dont know why he would have the tags in his wallet if he went to return the items wouldnt he need to use the tags come on. All the signs are there. Now it is up to you on what you want to do.

Answer 7

i understand you want second opinions and thats normal, your in a freaked out situation and you want help. but i think you kinda know the answer. im sorry about this too. but guys know the difference between a 34 b and a 36 d. im a 34 b and my sister is a 36 d and there is a big difference between us. thats one thing, guys know boobs well. plus if your married, i think he would know your sizes. and no, to answer your question, i returned something to victora's secret today because it was too big, and they need the tag and receipt...best of luck and im sorry this happened =(

Answer 8

Love, I don't think so,esp. the thong,that is a bit too personal for the store to take it back,cause they are very careful on getting some kind of bacteria or disease. Store policy can not take back underwear,esp. for women. You can return the bra that is all.

Your husband is caught and his lying big time, and yes you are right,store will keep the receipt when a costumers return some merchandise,.............be aware, he thought your a fool,don't let him....

Answer 9

Well, your suspicions are up no matter what. You may not know 100% positively, but you suspect and you are probably right. His excuses are sorta silly, but just plausible enough for him to believe he is getting away with something. I think you might be in for a very rough few months, maybe years ahead and you need to prepare yourself mentally for your hubby probably having an affair. Good luck and take care...affairs are painful business and you need to be strong.

Answer 10

It's time to boot the cheater.



According to this website he cant return the item without the tags attached. For undergarments that would indicate that the item has already been worn and that would be a health hazard.



http://www.shoptwelveoaks.com/IM/storedetail.html?store=D166

Answer 11

yeah someone needs kicked in the nuts. I would soo go through his cell phone and everything. Maybe his is trying to be a crossdresser. If you guys have been together for a while than he should know your bra size.

Answer 12

That lingerie was never bought with you in mind, clearly. Your husband's excuse is bullsh*t.

Answer 13

As as above poster said, you know the answer already. Especially since you said in the beginning that you don't trust him.

Answer 14

There is an old saying..."be careful what you wish for, you just might get it" So you were looking for something that would prove that he was cheating...yet you are angry about finding it? You admitted that you don't trust him. So WHY would you even confront him when you got exactly what you wanted? So, now you know...does it make you feel any better?

Answer 15

honey, he is clearly cheating on you, i hate to say that but it is my deepest feeling, he bought them for some girl for valentines day, probably, i doubt they take back panties, but anyway--this guy isnt being honest, can you talk to a counselor? my friend's husband went to a prostitute and charged the bill to Visa, can you believe that? obviously he wanted her to see it and they are now divorced -although it broke her heart, but now she is peaceful in her life, and see how many of us care about you? you are never alone.

Answer 16

You already know what is going on. I wish that posting this message would make you change your mind, but you know it isn't. You already said you didn't trust him, I wouldn't either. I am praying for you.

Answer 17

Stores don't take back lingerie. You have caught a scoundrel. Give it to him good.

Answer 18

the fact that you are asking this question makes me sad. you obviously want to believe him. my dear- he is lying to you. he must be good ,too,for you to even consider there to be any truth to this. please dont let him deceive you any more. if it looks like $#@ and smells like #$% then you know what it is. open your eyes to the truth, and accept nothing less than an honest confession. best wishes

Answer 19

YES YES YES

THEY WILL TAKE THEM BACK YES THERE IS A DIFFERENCE IN BRA SIZE AND YES

YOU DONT TRUST HIM...

AND MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT...

WOW... DONT KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU...

you both need to talk...

ps guys dont know anything about bra size though, BUT IF HE DID BUY IT FOR YOU, YOU SHOULD HAVE AT LEAST SEEN THE MERCHANDISE!!!



maybe you need to go to bloomingdales or macys,,,, mens department... they have some great thongs for men...

BUY THE LOT!!!! THE WHOLE BUNCH!!!

STASH THEM IN THE KITCHEN, LIKE WHEN HE MAKES HIS COFFEE IN THE MORNING??? MAYBE IN THE GLOVE COMPARTMENT OF YOUR CAR??? MAYBE IN YOUR LINGERE DRAWER????????????? WHAT THE HELL

HANG ONE FROM THE REAR VIEW MIRROR OF YOUR CAR!!!!!!!!!! SORRY.......... JUST TALK TO HIM...............................

Answer 20

sorry honey but you have a cheat for a husband. and he will keep doing it because he thinks he can .

Answer 21

I'm sorry hun, but I do believe your husband is a cheating bas****

Answer 22

he is definetly cheating on you. dont believe what he says. ive been through this and i was dumb enough to believe it only to find out later that he was lying.

Answer 23

Yes they would take them back.However as your husband he should know your size.It was probly for someone else.I think he is or was cheating.

Answer 24

You know the answer to this already. You don't need our help.

Answer 25

I think THERE IS A BIG difference in size??? And you probally guessed who has the lingerie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 26

Mhmm. He's probably tired of you suspecting him of cheating all the time. So instead of being accused for nothing, he's going to make sure he's getting in trouble for real this time. Ha ha! I love it!

Answer 27

He cheated on you

Answer 28

i wouldn't trust him either, something fishy going on there!

Answer 29

lying.....