I have been married 12 years. We have been happy for the most part. Now he is talking 5 days a week with his ex fiancee. I told him this bothers me but he gets mad. He has no friends and enjoys her chats.If I say it bothers me he keeps doing it, he said he'd stop to spare my feelings then he sneaks it. I finally just told him it was okay so he would not lie to me. When is enough enough? He gets PO'd if my ex was to call me and we never had sex like him and his ex did. Any ideas why men lie about talking to other women and hide chat emails,etc. from a wife who has always allowed him to do whatever?