Is there and chance I will be in a relationship after a two month break.?

Question

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend on and off for 2 years. When we were off it was because I was immature about it, lying, sneaking around because I keep thinking he is cheating on me. He has alot of female friends some he use to date and sleep with. Things got worst when I saw he on facebook all the time talking to them. He told me that nothing is going on. A few weeks ago we got in a fight and I deleted him off my pag but he usually add me back but this time he didn't. Monday we saw each other had the best sex and everything was perfect but the following morning I text him on accusing him of cheating because he have not been talking to me like he use to. So he stress he can't take it anymore and that we need to back off each other so he can focus on his career and making money. Then he said he loves me but my actions makes him not like me. So I know I need to get a job and focus on me. I told him let take a two months break then we were we are. I love this guy and he put up with a lot **** with me but I feel we are good for each other. Did I kill the relationship by giving it two months apart?

Answer 1

No, you killed it with the jealous insecurities and acting out, and immature deleting on facebook thing, and the like. Live and learn for next time.

Answer 2

You are not right for anyone right now. You have some very serious trust issues which you are going to have to resolve before you can have any kind of serious relationship. I would look into finding a therapist that can help you work through those issues.



You didn't so much kill the relationship as you just put it out of its misery, and it's obvious you were both miserable with each other. I'm serious - do some research, and find an affordable therapist that you can interact with. They will help you work through those issues that you have, and give you coping strategies along the way. You really can't afford NOT to do it.

Answer 3

You are NOT good for each other. You need to stop jumping behind the "you are cheating" accusation for everything. You are not ready for a relationship. Work on yourself before trying to share you with someone. He is right not wanting to be with you anymore. There was no realtionship to kill...you all were emotional sparring partners. Let this go.

Answer 4

Sounds like a match made in hell. You both need to move on immediately.

Answer 5

Magic eight ball says..."Reply hazy, try again."