When is the rite time to move in together?

Question

so Im just wondering when is the rite time to move in together?Im with my partner around 16 moths it isnt always perfect but i do love him.Anyway he lately mentioned to me that we might find some place in the end of this year to move in together so it will be easier to pay bills etc...Im briniging up my kid brother as my mom died and he is like dad to him he support us financially etc,...so another day after he mentioned about that move in i texted him that actually i would like to do it and start save money he said he cant do it by june and lets wait on ..maybe a year...Do u think the move in together is a sign of commitment?or asked him straight away if he wants to move in or if not so i would knw that he wnt be able to make more serious commitment to me at all?and i should move on?

Answer 1

You will know when the time is right. He already told you in about a year. So that gives you plenty of notice, plenty of time to find out if this is the guy for you and then you will be ready and want to or you won't be ready and may not want to. Never rush into a move in, or a marriage or any serious commitment. If you love him and he still loves you then things will work out in a year. Meanwhile just enjoy the life you have and what you are doing. (smile)

Answer 2

Truth is there is no right time.



Moving in is a big comitment, it takes trust and show that you really are together.



When you feel ready you should move in. if you truely love him, and you want to be with him, and you trust him then it should be fine.



but you need to know that you wont lean on him too much finacially otherwise it will cause many problems and might lead to an ugly end.



If you want to move in and think you are ready then tell him you are. You and him have to decide when and where you will go.



All the best

BigH

Answer 3

16 months isnt "really" long enough to "really" know someone. The wait may be a good thing. It gives you both time to think thru the big "commitment" that you'll be making. I don't think its a ? of him being able to commit, he pretty much has (so it sounds like ). Its sooo... different when you actually live together.



Word of advice: If/when you decide to move in, make sure you can hold your own (financially). That way if things don't go as planned, you won't be in any hardship. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Because you are bringing up your kid brother, my vote is you guys should be married before moving in together.



I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED.

Answer 5

Sounds like your best bet is to wait until he is ready to do it. Guys don't much care for comitment so don't rush him into anything.

Answer 6

Wait till your married!!

Answer 7

never jus dnt do it girl frend ( pretend i do that click thing )

Answer 8

when u really trust the person

Answer 9

yeah..go ahead

Answer 10

when married