Question:
Well what would u say?lingerie?
jessy
2008-03-21 14:08:24 UTC
I went in the office and my husbands on his laptop playing solitare then all of a sudden another page comes over the top of all these chics in lengerie in a row moveing like u click on which one u want. Im sure he pushed the window x by accident hideing it under the solitare page.He looked at me in eeek!So what do u say?aaah!
Fifteen answers:
anonymous
2008-03-21 14:26:16 UTC
Office at home or at work? If at work, then you do have a problem-first he isn't working, but playing solitare. Second, he isn't working and checking out some naughty pics.



At home? Depends on how you feel regarding him looking at these types of things. Does it bother you? If so, tell him. Don't tell him in a nagging/blaming sort of way, just be calm, rational, and upfront. Men don't usually pick up on "clues" and whatnot, so be straightforward. Tell him you dont like it, how it makes you feel (the short version-not the detailed version unless he asks for more because if you go into a long speech about it, he will just tune you out) and ask him not to do it.



But actually, from what you are describing, that doesn't even sound like *real* porn. I don't even know if that can be considered softcore....And it actually sounds like a shopping website. maybe he was going to buy you some lingerie and surprise you?????



If you don't mind him looking at this stuff, as one of my guy friends always said....you can get a lot of knowledge about a guy's sexual fantasies/preference/likes from looking at his computer history. I like how other people suggested that you get lingerie as well....Use this to your advantage. Heck, he may just be embarrassed to ask you about "spicing" up the sex life with even just simple lingerie. I know my fiancee loves lingerie for several reasons, and one of the main ones is because it shows the effort I put into looking good for him. I am doing something especially for HIM. Drives him nuts.....and then he does extra special things for me in return. :o)
anonymous
2008-03-21 21:21:34 UTC
I would be a little upset, find out his explanation for it, then check the history on his laptop and your home computer to see if he has done this before.



If this is the first time and he accidentally went there, you won't see anything in the history, if he has done it before, you will find that in his history.



If this is a habit- I would nail his butt to the wall. That is very inappropropriate for any man, especially a married man.
Johnny A
2008-03-21 21:23:08 UTC
God help Dave F getting married in 8 days...
Kay
2008-03-21 21:12:52 UTC
It depends on how you feel about him looking at other women, and from the sounds of it you don't. Let him know that it is worse for you to just grin and bear it. Tell him straight up you don't approve. You don't have to put up with it.
mitch p
2008-03-21 21:42:30 UTC
oh grow up, there just stupid pics., what are they going to do?

jump off the page and on his dik?
mymacman
2008-03-21 21:12:39 UTC
you caught him looking at naughty pics. I used to do that, then my wife caught me. I was so completely embarrassed, it shocked me into QUITTING. I am glad, too.
Freedle S
2008-03-21 21:11:36 UTC
That is too funny.



I hate it when a surprise gift is found out. lol



fs
anonymous
2008-03-21 21:22:17 UTC
LOL Freedle!!!!



Yeah, just say "hey, what is that? Show me" Then find something you really like and say "buy me that one".



:)))))))
God Bless America!~
2008-03-21 21:13:36 UTC
um, maybe he was looking at victoria secret models or maybe porn? i wouldnt worry too much...did u ask him why he looked like that when u caught him? god bless.
emcentee
2008-03-21 21:12:25 UTC
Ask him which one he'd prefer to see you in and tell him to buy it for you.
anonymous
2008-03-21 21:44:10 UTC
that was to funny- would of loved to see his face- what did you say to him?? my wife would have went balistic!
paul
2008-03-21 21:14:22 UTC
Ask him which model he liked the best and ask if you sould get that lingerie........
Marie S
2008-03-24 20:36:57 UTC
http://www.lingeriediva.com/
nasty
2008-03-21 21:19:01 UTC
men!
anonymous
2008-03-21 21:12:01 UTC
I say buy some sexy lingerie.


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