Technically we are not a couple anymore. My ex girlfriend broke it off a few days ago after almost 4 years, she felt like i was taking her for granted. She is right, for the last couple weeks i have done things to take her for granted. I dont want to make excuses but i was going through some things, and i thought i was giving her space because she was stressing over school. I know we have broken just broken up, but i want to fix things. I know i took her for granted and i want her to know she is my number one priority, and i didnt mean to hurt her or make her feel like she was less than she really is. I care deeply about her still and want to make it up.
I was wondering if this is something a couple can fix and get past?
If i am willing to put up the effort and change, is that enough to have a second chance?
I want to know mostly from ladies, if a guy took you for granted, but was willing to change and make it work, would you give the relationship another chance? or is being taken for granted a big deal breaker that can never be fixed?