Ex help!Should I call it Quits or Work it Again? ?

Question

Okay. Check it out. I been divorce for 1yr. Why i got divorce because my ex didn't take action doing good thing in a marriage.We started to fight a lot when our daughter was born, He made excuse about money and paying bills. it was his 1st time getting an apartment and paying bills things about a marriage, he is 35yrs old. now and berly got to do things like this always been a momma boy, and his mother always telling him what to do. That was my mistake i made that i married a man like this. but now that we are divorce because all this drama.
I got custody for my daughter. and child support. she lives with me, and he went back to his mommy house,
So since then we try to work things again ( big mistake again) now he thinks because we trying again he could get the baby more times .days.. and all holidays. Well recent i been calling it quits. I still love this man.. and it hurts me to let him go. I'm a person that trys to make it work, but he is not trying again. I feel all he wants with me,is used me. to get what he wants more..
So i dunno i should call it quits .. thats it..
i have done less TEXTING AND TALKING ON THE PHONE.but when he sees the baby.. it hurts me because he wants to come to me all mooche with me again. What u people suggest..
What can make me stronger. ..
P.s. Family don't like him for what he did to me and my daughter.. kick us out the home and file divorce in the pass.
So my family tell me enough is enough Crying for this guys and the stress.. that i'm better single. without his drama selfish life.

Answer 1

Stop wasting time with him. He's 35 years old and has yet to grow up.

Answer 2

it didn't work the first time for a reason, and it doesn't look like he's made an effort to remedy that, so move on and focus on your baby girl, she needs a strong role model in her life and you better make sure its you!

Answer 3

If nothing else... your daughter deserves to have a better male influence in her life than that. Not to say she shouldn't see her dad.

Answer 4

You need to grow up Hes not and never will..

Answer 5

oh please he is just a loser, your daughter deserve a better role model. so just let him go. beside you already know, he is not even trying.

good luck!