My wife filed for divorce and will not speak?

Question

My wife has filed for divorce and leaves apart with me. The only contact we have had is through in which she would only email me for money. I sent her some money and she told me she received the money and I only replied your welcome. I then ask her to call ma on her dads phone since she doesn't want me to know hers. I said Im not telling you to call me Im asking.

She called me which Im greatful for and ask her how she was doing and if her school was going good and she said it was going ok. I told her that the is a beuatiful woman an awesome woman and a gret Christian woman. I told her I'm working on me with counceling and in my Christian values, I told her that this wad not instant but gradual. She had a very monotone tone with me and ask if that was all I wanted to say. I told het if she would allow me just a little bit if time to gain just a small bit of her trust back I would appreciate it. She said she didn't want to be around me because Im a liar and mean. I said yes there are things I say that are not how I really feeling in my heart and thanked get for allowing me to talk to her. When I asked just a little bit of a way to show her I wanted to show her that I hope to be able to show her she could trust me if she would allow that a little bit of the time she would only say 'we will see'. I thanked her for her time and we said by. We are up for divorce hearing on 10/25 and she has asked for a few months of support and specific dollar amount and I agreed to that number for more than a couple of months but for 6 months which she should see my proposal next week. I also proposed to her I would stat in counceling atleast 2 or more times a month and continue to find the right anxiety meds and all I asked in return wad her to attend marriage counceling, a marriage workshop or couples retreat. I don't believe she will give me a chance with her but I still intend to help her even if she says no and still wants the divorce longer than what she is asking for in terms of support help in months. Without getting my hopes up as I told her when I ask just a small window to gain her trust back and show her that I'm not mean in my heart Im wondering if there is any hope she will give me a small oppurtunity to show her a little bit at a time to prove to het Im serious about how she sees me and hope I can change her heart and mind over time, what do you guys think?

Answer 1

You said - She said she didn't want to be around me because Im a liar and mean - are you going to tell us why she thinks you are a liar? Then you go on to say that you want her to attend marriage guidance with you? Why? if she thinks you are a liar then no marriage guidance will change her mind if she doesn't trust you. The problem is obviously with you so you will need to change whatever problems you have before she will ever trust you again. Give her space and let her decide what she wants for the future. Good Luck.

Answer 2

Bye Bye

Answer 3

I'm sorry you should just do your best to move on..this woman doesn't love you anymore