I am 31 years old, and have been married for almost 4 years. I am contemplating divorce. My psychiatrist thinks I should. My husband has put golf first in our lives since we started dating. It got to the point that I felt neglected and lonely. It was like he was having an affair with the golf club. He also can be very condescending and belittling. We had a conversation about it FINALLY, and he said he wanted to work it out and that he loves me, but I think it is too late. I don't feel I am in love with him. This has been going on for most of our marriage and even before hand. Having sex with him repulses me. I am afraid however to be alone and afraid to stay in this marriage and be miserable the rest of my life. I am scared that I am 31 and will be alone the rest of my life. I want children and a family very much. I don't know what to do. Risk being alone to hopefully find true happiness or settle, stay comfortable in a loveless marriage. PLEASE HELP!