What would you do if?

Question

you saw that your fiance had pictures of his ex-girlfriend in lingerie saved in one of his e-mail folders??

Answer 1

I wouldn't do anything... It's his personal business. I certainly hope to never be snooping about on his computer, and that he will never snoop about on mine... Cuz who knows what he might find... Better let the sleeping dogs lie.



Unless I happened to notice that the pics were sent recently - then I would not ba happy, and would bring it up with him.

Answer 2

I'd get myself to a therapist to try to ascertain why I felt a need to be snooping through his e-mail folders in the first place.



If it's really bothering you, you might mention it to him, but it's most likely only going to cause friction if you do. And not in a GOOD way either!



Jealousy will kill a relationship more quickly than anything else. The thing you need to remember is that she's his EX girlfriend and you are his CURRENT girlfriend!

Answer 3

Ask him why they are there. But that may cause a problem for you. Where you snooping in his folders without him knowing. That is where trust issues comes in. Think about it before you do anything. Maybe you could just delete them and not say anything.

Answer 4

Check out the Opposition-Then Delete! After Jamming a Pencil in His hand!

Answer 5

I would dump him and move on. Gross. That is enough to give me nightmares and I couldn't think of why I would want to stay with him.



As some payback, you can delete the pictures from his harddrive but not until you had emailed them to yourself and then sent them to your fiance and play a little game. That is, if you have the time & energy.



First and final thoughts, dump him and move on

Answer 6

First of all, how did you see the picture. It is kind of hard for you to go and get mad at him if you where snooping in his email. Take some advice from me, my now husband had a box in the table next to our bed when we where dating and it had letters and pictures of his ex. I lost it, made him throw them out. We fought over it for MONTHS. But I also new that he had looked at them because they had been rearranged in the box. I would talk to him, tell him it upsets you and why. Also tell him that you would like for him to delete it, but only if he wants to, you want to make sure he gets rid of it because he wants to not because you want to, because if he does it for you it will always bother you.;

Answer 7

That is a sign ! I didn't see that by the pictures in my husband's wallet years ago & I went through hell with him for about 11 years before he learned to be one on one partner. Watch yourself is all I can say from my own expereince.

Answer 8

Post them online. That should get her. :-P J/K. Tell him that you found them and ask him why he is keeping them. He may have just forgotten that he had them there and delete them right away. Or, if he has a problem with getting rid of them, perhaps you have a bigger problem and need to discuss his feelings for his ex. Either way, he'll appreciate your honesty better than if you just delete them.

Answer 9

Go out and get yourself the sexiest lingerie ever and WOW his mind out and have the best sex ever. He'd probably delete the pic himself. He's already got the best prize with him, he doesnt need memories :)

Answer 10

Look to see when the last time he accessed it was. He may be a poor housekeeper when it comes to old email. If it is just old, ask him to delete it, if it looks as if he has been looking at them, then it's time for a more serious talk.

Answer 11

They are just pictures. Don't let small infractions ruin your relationship. Remember she is the ex-girlfriend for a reason.

Answer 12

First you did neglect his privacy. But since you know about the picture now...confront him and ask him why he has to keep it. If he goes to the left on you then move on. Life is too short for these things.

Answer 13

Give him the benefit of the doubt that he "forgot" they were there. Next delete them and e-mail him some super sexy pictures of you. He won't need then anymore.

Answer 14

i would investigate first. see when the pics were put in his email folders. and if it was recent, i would confront him. if it was from way before we were together, i would delete them and then tell him i did it.

but my fiance knows better;) lol

Answer 15

Ask him why he has pics of her like that and delete them or better, make him delete them in front of you. Then see where it goes from there. You might even want to email her (under his email) and let her know that he is married now and ask her to stop sending the pics. Be polite, she might not know he is married.

Answer 16

Do not delete them . Confront him . You need to know if he is even aware that they are there . You need to find out before you marry him . He may be a cheater too !

Answer 17

Just talk to him about it calmly and see what he has to say. That, or don't say anything, but replace them with pictures of YOU in lingerie. :)

Answer 18

Delete them and put some of u in that folder.

Answer 19

I would ask him about them he may have saved them when they where together and now that they are not he may have just forgot they are there. Ask him first before getting to upset.

Answer 20

Unn uhh you better tell him to delete that **** or you do it urself cuz he doesn't need to be saving pictures like that. Thats disrespectful to you and your relationship. Either he wants to be with you or with her..

Answer 21

not panic first off.....until able to really talk with him



remember - it is hard to let go of things sometimes when realizing your connection is coming to an end



trust what has brought you together



no trust - no relationship

Answer 22

Good lord...I would be spitting razor blades at that, i would confront him with the "evidence" and ask him what the bloody hell he thinks he is playing at.

Answer 23

Tell him how much it hurts you, and ask him to get rid of them... You shuldn't have to delete them yourself, he should do it for you!!! you go girl, stick up for whats right!

Answer 24

ask him about that and we u r fully satisfied wid the answer let him go and ove him more as he dares to tell u the truth

Answer 25

OOOOOOOHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! I would be so ticked off!!!! I would defiantly confront him with it. I mean, he should not have her picture at all, much less of one in lingerie....

Answer 26

Smash his computer to a million pieces.

Answer 27

Does he know that you access his account? If so, then i would ask him about it.

If not, then tell him you did, and ask him why they are still there...he might even have forgotten about them.

Answer 28

Delete them for him

Answer 29

ask him about it then ask him to erase them and if he wont tell him bye bye hes not worth the pain and hurt youll get if you marry him.

Answer 30

ask him if he is into 3 somes and have a party

Answer 31

I'll mail his naked pictures to EVERYBODY I know plus his work and his parents... then leave him!!!!!





HAAHAHAHAHAHAH i'm evil!!!!!



(I'll do other stuff 2)

Answer 32

Forward a copy of them to me.

Answer 33

ask him why he still has them or delete them on accident of course

Answer 34

ummmmmm..........



On the "go to war over it" scale, I would give this a 2.



Leave it alone.



And stay outta his email.

Answer 35

delete them with his permisstion so he doesnt feel violated.

Answer 36

i think i would ask him to kindly delete them because they make you feel disrespected.

Answer 37

yeah what they said already kill him and smash the damn computer a million times

Answer 38

Personally I would have to confront him............but that would be after deleting them........

Answer 39

depends on how does she looks like.

Answer 40

SHOW HIM THE PICTURES SO HE CAN'T DENIY THEM THEN DELETE THEM AND FLIP OUT

Answer 41

Photoshop his mom's face over hers.......LOL!

Answer 42

confront him about, then delete them.

Answer 43

castrate him, but I'm the jealous type :)

Answer 44

he might not know about them

Answer 45

delete him

Answer 46

delete them then delete him !

Answer 47

ask him about it and threaten to leave him.

Answer 48

4get about them

Answer 49

flip out!

Answer 50

erase them

Answer 51

dig his grave

Answer 52

Set you on fire.

Answer 53

Let it go......who cares.

Answer 54

confront him.

Answer 55

delete them......

Answer 56

kill him.... lol