Why does my wife seem more turned on looking at buff guys than with me? Why doesnt she look at me the same way?

Question

So i thought this was an important topic to wright about iv noticed so many wifes and normal woman that gets so turned on with weekly hot n sexy buff guys on fb that my wife has , or just seeing any buff guy thats got abs and a nice body. Im just confused to why my wife or any wife doesnt make any comments or act the way she does around buff/ ripped men or just seeing them. And i feel if i talk to her about it , seems that she wuld be fake about it to make me feel betr. Ive spent me time in the gym getting ripped trying my hardest with my busy life, but i just cant seem to get as ripped and sexy as those guys in magazines. Im a firefighter and my busy schedule with work and family is so hard for me to be in the gym 3 or more hours a day. I feel like im chasing a standard of looking good for my wife that ill never hit. Now i understand men look at women almost the same but i dont have sexy women on my fb! I dont stair at men in public with my spouse! By god if i had a sexy girl page i followed on facebook my wife or any wife im sure would flip out! So im conclusion why do women think this is ok? Why arent women talking or at there husbands like they do to hotter guys? To all you women how do you think it makes us fathers and husbands feel that work our butts of for or spouses and family? Thanks for reading this if yall did lol.
Please give me some advice! Looking for a betr way to understand this issue and be more attractive in my wifes eyes!

Answer 1

It's called the double standard of women.

She can look but you can't.

It's all bullshit.

Do what she does and when she lashes out just explain you thought it was okay because she was doing it lol. This might wind you up in some hot water though but don't be that ***** that sleeps on the couch. It's your ******* house, you pay for it.

Answer 2

Same reason guys like seeing fit and toned woman in lingerie and bikinis its eye candy. Maybe if you had a hardbody she would but if your like the average guy with a little beer gut your going to be getting the average looks. You have also gotten older your not no young stud anymore. Humans are simply visual beings we take notice of attractive or beautiful things a girl can swoon over the picture of a hot guy as much a guy can swoon over the picture of the New Dodge Hellcat.

Answer 3

It's no different than the way a woman feels when her husband is checking out thinner younger women or looks at porn. She feels like she busts her butt to be a good mom and work to take some financial strain off her husband and he turns around at looks at that stuff. Inadequate and unappreciated. I notice men can't take it when their wife does the same to him as he does to her.

Answer 4

So you don't want to look at sexy people Most people in the world do like to look at nice sexy well shaped bodies that is human nature You have a problem that has nothing to do with your wife. You have a poor self image and low self confidence. She married you didn't she? She expects to stay and be with you when you are old and not sexy right? she is the one that is there for you right? You don't think she is cheating on you right? You do believe that she loves you Right? Well if you said yes to those questions the problem is not with her it is you my friend who is unreasonably jealous and envious of the good looking men on TV Welcome to our world women have and are still being compared to movie stars and models who do not look as good in real life person as they do on the page and screen. We have lived with this for decades so you need to learn how to deal with it like women always have

Answer 5

Because shes used to looking at you & maybe youre not buff anymore. Its the same reason men get turned on by looking at teen girls instead of their wives.

Answer 6

Get some weights or join a gym . An hour a day will transform how you look and feel .

Answer 7

dude..not all wives are like that. it is true that everyone...men and women alike, enjoys looking at well toned bodies and nice looking people, but most of us keep things private and don't flaunt that in front of our spouses. if your wife is being rude about it, that is her....not all women. i enjoy looking at good looking men, but i never comment or say or do anything to make my husband feel lesser in my eyes. just like men like to look at nice looking girls, but the smart ones do not make comments or do anything to make their wives feel lesser.



your problem is with your individual wife, not all women behave like that. so if you did not choose well in choosing your mate, don't blame all of womanhood for it.

Answer 8

she knows you from head to foot, life is perfunctory with you.. seeing another guy naked just gives your wife a little thrill, as i expect you seeing a naked woman would give you a thrill .