My husband keeps calling me fat and its driving me crazy?

Question

I am 23 years old. Im right under 5' 6 and I weigh 120 pounds. My husband is 31 and we have been married for 3 years. We use to get along but hes very moody and gets angry for no reason. I get cussed out and called stupid almost on the daily over things like forgetting to open a window and if dinner is 5 minutes late when he gets home from work. Its becoming exhausting. Anyway hes gotten to where he calls me fat and tells me I need to watch what I eat. I admit I was smaller when I met him. I weighed 105 pounds. Ive been trying so hard to monitor my food intake and do everything right but he always finds something new to gripe about. What should I do? :(

Answer 1

You are not fat. But the lesson here, is never let yourself go. You may have to trade him in..lol Go to this site, www.mypyramid.gov. It is a free government sit that helps you to monitor food intake. You also mention that you are exhausted, and you don't mention kids. Make a doctors appointment to have your blood checked for iron deficiency. This can lead to all types of problems.



You are 8 years younger than this dude. He should be kissing your feet. You don't mention if you are working, and if you aren' perhaps you should enroll in a community college. Some offer day care services while you attend class.



Try talking to your husband. Let him know how it hurts to be told you are fat, when you are not. If you re doing all the house work, this is the time to ask for help. Also, try putting the kids to bed so that you leave time for you and your husband to have alone time.



Good Luck, hope everything works out for you.

Answer 2

You realise this is not about your weight, don't you. If you lost 20 pounds tomorrow, your so-called husband would just find something else to criticise. He is a bully and he enjoys hurting you. So what you should do is divorce him and find someone who doesn't get a kick out of the pain of a person they're supposed to love. Because that's not healthy at all.

Answer 3

Divorce him. He's either got someone else and trying to drive you away through verbal abuse or he's just a jerk and using abuse to keep you down. Nobody should ever be treated like that. You are not fat at 5'6" and 120. You sound insure and that's what he's preying on. If you've done the obvious and tried talking and counseling then file for divorce before you end up with kids with this jerk. You don't treat love ones this way and if that's the way he treats you then he's moved on mentally.

Answer 4

There are issues lying under the surface. You both need to deal with them. If he doesn't want to, or if he says it's all your fault, the issues still need to be brought up. He can pretend that not talking about it will solve his side of the problem, but he's wrong. Truth is truth and it's the existence of the problem that is affecting your relationship, whether it's discussed or not.

Answer 5

According to insurance tables you are 15 pounds underweight...tell your hubby to screww himself!

Answer 6

He's an abuser. An emotional and verbal abuser.

Answer 7

OK, first off you are NOT overweight and it seems like your best course of weight loss is to lose HIM. What a jerk.

Answer 8

DEARY I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM, RUB HIS BACK,RUB YOUR NAILS DOWN HIS BACK ,GET THE LITTLE GUY HARD,THEN PUT A KN--- TO IT AND SAY ONE MORE TIME I WILL CUT IT OFF....NAD IF HE SAYS IT AGAIN.....DO THE MARIA ANTTONET ON IT....