I made out with my friends hubby .?

Question

Hi all.. Ok so I went to my friends hubby z bday party.. And her hubby kissed me while we were in room alone .. I didn't respond to his kiss and pushed him away.. Later that night his wife , who was really high went to slp early.. My hubby was sloshed too and slept as soon as he lied on The bed. This friends hubby and over and we started making out (I was high) .. We didn't hv sex as I asked him to go home and subconsciously knew that it wasn't right. Next morning onwards he was texting but I ignored fr 2 days.. After that he texted me how he is looking forward to meet me blah blah.. I Tried explaining him that this isn't right and hence we shdnt me meeting .. But he changes the topic and we end up chatting the entire day.. How to politely turn him down .. Or should I be stern shd directly tell him off ?

Answer 1

It was a mistake. Tell your friends hubby to stop contacting you because you love your husband and you're not leaving him, after you do that stop talking to him.

Answer 2

You can't figure out how to handle the situation? Tell him straight up that what you two did was stupid, thoughtless, and a betrayal to people you both love. You've no intention of continuing so his interaction with you needs to return to how it was before that night, or you'll just cut contact completely (with him). If he continues to pester you, consider coming clean to your husband and friend.

Answer 3

You are a bad friend. Would you like it if your friend messed with your husband when you went to sleep?? I don't think you would be happy. Stop talking to him!!! Once your friend finds out shell beat your a** .You don't text your friends husband ?? Kind of s*** is that? I'm glad your not my friend..

Answer 4

He is harassing you because he knows you will not tell your husband. He has no recourse. Tell your husband. Tell his wife. And don't be the skank you were that night anymore. You really are not a good person at all to do this.

Answer 5

Some times the only way to get rid of someone like this is to be rude as possible. Tell him you are going to tell his wife. If you don't she or your husband is going to find out.

Answer 6

Be stern with yourself, lady! "we end up chatting the entire day", " I tried explaining"..... but....



Be stern with yourself. You are flirting with and making out with and STILL toying with some sort of explanation for why YOUR behaviors are not YOUR responsibility. They are yours and yours alone. He has little to do with it and your girlfriend sure as heck isn't going to blame her husband for YOUR behaviors. Get it straight.



Sounds like you are just about to have an affair with the husband of a woman you pretend to like.

Answer 7

If you continue to maintain contact like chatting the entire day, you know exactly where that will lead. Assuming you do not want to have physical intimacy with him, you'd best cease contact with him.

Answer 8

be stern and directly tell him off or ignore him and block him. Obviously, you both were inebriated at the party and wouldn't normally interact in that capacity. If he threatens to tell the other spouses, then don't be worried, as it was mostly harmless.

Answer 9

You crossed a line and shouldn't have any contact with him at all. You don't need to tell him off, just stop the contact and act like what happened never happened.

Answer 10

Tell him that since you were both under the influence, you both did things you would not normally even think of. Tell him in no uncertain terms that his advances and communications are unwanted. Then block him.

Answer 11

Sounds like your a tramp, you should have never lead him on. So now you need to put out. Stop being a ****. If I were your husband, I'd pimp you out.

Answer 12

Bad

Answer 13

JUST SAY ..NO..AND DO NOT REPLY TO ANY OF HIS TEXTS. Cut this man totally out of your life. And if he doesn't get the hint show his texts to YOUR husband and HIS wife.

Answer 14

Got to tell him out right that you do not want an affair with him and tell him to quit bugging you about it.

Answer 15

Stop responding to his texts or calls. Tell him that you were wrong to do what you did and NOTHING more will ever happen.

Answer 16

Trailer park life much?

Answer 17

Be stern, tell him it was a mistake and you are not interested and you would appreciate him leaving you alone.

Answer 18

You need to stop chatting with him.

How hard is that to comprehend?

Answer 19

Tell your husband.

Answer 20

bad

Answer 21

tell the truth and shame the devil... in other words tell him straight that you do not want anything to do with him.

Answer 22

when he persists or chnges he topic, just igno him, petend he doesnt exist