my wife doesn't feel tight anymore, why?

Question

my wife doesn't feel tight anymore, why?

Answer 1

The problem you have here is that you are being a man and trying to fix it. it's kind of like when a woman complains about something, she doesnt want your help to try and fix it she just wants you to listen to her cry about it for an hour lol. the fact that you are giving her suggestions is just affirming in her mind that you now find her unattractive the way she is and it needs to be fixed so try this, or try that. All you need to do is tell her how beautiful she is. say things like "man your @zz looks good right now" accompanied with a gentle squeeze. or when she walks into the room stop what you are doing and just stare at her. when she asks you whats up just tell her you can't believe how hot she is. all the stupid little things you did when you first met her. she may be associating the natural decline in these responses to you not finding her attractive anymore because of the weight gain. dont try to get her in bed right away. just a couple days of these little things and she will build up the confidence to go all the way. no worries!

Answer 2

I say there are only a few reasons to this.



one- Her not texting you is very normall for a married couple, I don't text my husband as much as i use to when we were boyfriend girlfried or newlywed, but when we're together I will show a little affection someway by giving a hug, kiss, cuddle, holding his hand while driving, or just saying I love you. the texting situation is very normal.



two- As for the loose vagina, your probably having sex with her alot, if you had sex more than once a day, everyday than that explains it,[my husband and I now do not have sex as much but we're still satisfied] if not than look for a toy around the house can't find one? than there's another reason.[i'm not making assumptions]



three- If she had a baby than that cause the loose vagina

Answer 3

Vaginal stretching can be caused by one of three things:



Pregnancy, which softens the walls of the vagina, thus making it seem a little more stretched OR



Having children, in which a woman's vagina can be stretched to extreme (try squeezing a baby out of there!) AND FINALLY



TOO MUCH SEX, this can cause the vagina to stretch over a period of time due to constant sex.

Answer 4

You are getting weird ideas that will lead you to a big mistake. To make it short, a woman's vagina moves accordingly (like when she's having sex or giving birth). I suggest you to check Wikipedia or something and check for yourself how wrong you are. As for this "looseness" that you notice most likely means she's feeling MORE RELAXED with you and you are getting the wrong idea!

Answer 5

Lol. I love this question.



I do believe the vagina expands prior to her period.

At least that's what my ex claimed.

Maybe that's why she's my ex.

Ha.



Maybe she's not cheating, maybe she's just been using a dildo, I mean a HUGE dildo, while you are away and not there to fufil her desires.



And about the whole texting problem, tell he she doesn't have you in the bag so keep on trying to impress you.



Fair enough?

Answer 6

No, your wife not being as tight as she used to does not mean she is sleeping with someone else. You are having sex with her right? The passion always dies down a little after you get into that comfortable mode in a relationship. Why don't you start instigating some of those messages that you liked getting and send some yourself.

Answer 7

its very normal for the vaginal cavity to feel looser and no she isn't having interactions with other men. She could just be pleasuring her self or the muscles down there are naturally loosening up. There are exercises she can do to tighten down there. As for the texting and the cuties stuff its normal for that to die down i have been married for a while if my wife texted me while i was at work over just cuties stuff saying she loved me, with some other lo-vie do-vie items i would want to know what the hell she did.

Answer 8

No women dont do that.I still call and text my husband after 12 yrs.each and everyday(vice versa).I dont know what to tell you about your wife not feeling like she used to.To my knowledge if that happens to a woman she is usually very active(if u know what i mean).There could be no other reason that i know of.I dont know but whatever your concerns are you need to talk to your wife.Dont always assume the worst.Maybe she bought a super jumbo playtoy that you dont know about and that might be stretching her out..Like i said i dont know so you should really ask her.Good luck

Answer 9

Lots of possibilities. How long have you been married? I doubt very much that she is fooling around. Stretching takes quite a while. And habits change. Not many grown ups continue with the texting thing, it is mostly a teen thing.

Answer 10

It doesn't mean she is having sex with someone else she could very well just be using a toy. Don't know why she isnt texting you though and ya woman do this and so do men.

Answer 11

Oh puleeeezzzzzz! I think it's the other way around. I think your pee-pee is getting smaller and she's getting tired of you and your immature day dreaming and your slowly turning her off. Get real. Your married. Grow up. She's got you by the wee-wee. She doesn't have to do those kinds of things anymore. Your job is to go out and make money and then bring it home and eat what is put in front of you. *the end*

Answer 12

It's simple. Worn out and time for re-bushing. You know like a water pump or other motor. It needs a new bushing pressed in. Take a 10-12 lb ham, stick it in and pull the center bone out. Good as new Wa- la tight again. :)

Answer 13

Or perhaps you are shrinking.



There's always the possibility that she bought some toys because she isn't satisfied with you like she once was.



My point is that it doesn't have to be someone else. There could be more than one cause.



cheers

Answer 14

Maybe its just your cock

Its shrunk

Our bits do loosen but nothing pelvic floor exercises wont sort out av had two kids and still as tight as i was b4! Cuz i do them on regularly

Answer 15

Stop jumping to conclusions. Unless you have a reason not to trust your wife, I wouldn't worry about it.



Do something nice for her. If she appreciates you she will send you texts again.

Answer 16

Have you tryed different positions. like having her on top...each position feels different and if your wife is willing she can do kegel exercises while doing sex.

Answer 17

WTF???

Maybe your shrinking??

A vagina is a muscle, BTW.. The more you exersize it the stronger it becomes..

Maybe she should do some kegels

Answer 18

Her vagina will be getting loser as you stretch it.

You have to trust her, and it doesn't sound like you do.

A relationship built on lies & suspicion will never work.

Answer 19

okay maybe she might be cheating but i understand when your with someone all the time you dont wanna talk all the time when your away and sorry bout the vagina thing cant help there maybe your gettin smaller!?!? use viagra

Answer 20

lol maybe your wang is shrinking. hahahaha

It's hard for me to imagine any vag not being tight enough.

Answer 21

Maybe she quit texting you because your unit has gotten smaller.

Answer 22

She's getting old. Give her a break!

Answer 23

if your wife was pregnant or you do it way too much

they both can cause the stretching of the vaginal area

just slow down

and have a nice chat

and you text her and she will respond

:)

Answer 24

she is not cheating stupid just get her a toy to insert in her butt and it will be like she is a virgin and she will *** like never before

Answer 25

of course. When one stretches a body part too much from wear and tear....what do you think happens?

Answer 26

Maybe the dildo is huge

Answer 27

She doesn't feel tight anymore 'cause you've screwed her too much.

Answer 28

the games we play,makes life fun hey

Answer 29

Im doing her and my c0ck is massive so ive made her as loose as a 2 dolla h0e

Answer 30

I say shes cheating... SORRY!!

Answer 31

Perhaps you shrunk.

Answer 32

some do

Answer 33

idk what to say...o n maybe u try textin her n then say nice things n maybe she'll do the same thing backk

Answer 34

oh **** that sucks

idk what to say... or why thats happening