This is a follow up to an earlier question. My wife is overall a very good wife. I do feel lucky to have her. One thing though that bothers me is that she complains a lot. I have always tried to adjust to her needs and to listen to her complaints. But sometimes she complains no matter what happens. For example, we recently moved to a new town. All summer before we moved she complained non-stop about not having a job lined up before we moved. She did this even though I am always very busy with work, and pretty much all of my leisure time was given over to listening to her complaints. I did this because I did not want her to feel neglected. But right before we moved, she found a job that is a good match for her. Once she had the job, all she has done is complain about it. When I asked her why she complained before about not having a job, she admitted all along she really did not want a job at all despite her complaining the whole time. Now I feel like a fool for listening so much to her complaints as if there was something to be done, when she really was complaining in both cases about having exactly what she wanted. Why does she do this? How do I handle it in a way a good husband should? Thank you.