I broke my own rule and peeked at his....................?

Question

I'm always saying to people here, don't snoop, don't peek, because it only starts trouble. Well I broke my own rule and I'm so devastated that I did. I wish I hadn't peeked. Now I have "half" the information and don't know what's true and my imagination is running wild. I wish I never snooped. I wish I hadn't done it.

i'm so sad.

did you ever wish you hadn't snooped

Answer 1

it's not the end of the world baby girl next time you know better

Answer 2

Depends on what you peeked at. But no matter what it was, you now know and saw what you wanted to. So What? you would have seen it sooner or later anyway. I think in your life you will find yourself peeking again. It's human nature to find out what you want to Especially if it is as easy as peeking. Sometimes this is not legal, but only you will know. You will however have to live with what you peek at. As you stated, peeking can be upsetting and if you are upset by what you did (1/2 the info) you will have to wait for the rest or just fess up and ask some questions. It's your choice.

Answer 3

No, I guess I never have or have never run across anything that bothered me.



Looks like you have to finish the job. It's no good to go around with half the story. get the rest straight from him. Don't take any guff. make him tell you the truth and don't be in denial about this. I'm sure you know already that he is cheating for sure.



The truth is a good thing. You may think you wish you didn't know but, hey, you would just be living a lie. So do it quickly, like tape being pulled off a wound, it will hurt less if you don't drag it out.

Answer 4

What did you look at? I wish I never did snoop but if I hadn't He wouldn't have told me he was seeing a sewer rat behind my back and I may have gotten a disease. Just try to get the info out of him without letting on you snooped.

Answer 5

It's just human nature sometimes as we get curious and insecure. The problem is that you can't erase the information you have now and you need to figure out if you can just out it aside and move on or if it going to keep eating at you. If you can't let it go, you are probably best to try and talk to him about it and apologise for snooping otherwise things may become uncomfortable - especially if you are not trusting him



Good Luck

Answer 6

What did you do? Look in his wallet and find a phone number?? Just curious...Anyway, don't keep beating yourself up about it. Just remember how you feel if the temptation to peek ever arises again. I am really curious as to how much cash my husband carries in his wallet, but, like you say it causes trouble.

Answer 7

I think you should confess to your guy and tell him what happened. If he really cares about you, he'll understand. If he doesn't maybe he's not the right guy for you. Whatever you snooped and peeked at, I don't think it'll matter to him once you confess. Good luck!

Answer 8

I'm a firm believe in two things : 1) never snoop unless you are prepared for what you find. 2) If you have to wonder something is wrong( possibly).

Answer 9

Yes I have wished that. Please don't try to find out the other half of the information. If you are meant to know it you will. Anything that is wrong will be shown. Just watch and wait, but don't peek.

Answer 10

No. I would use the information in a positive way if possible. Unless you found out that he's murdering people of course.

Answer 11

yes...sadly to say. It only leads to more questions. you always find something you wish you hadn't. I wish I had just trusted him. I won't torture myself that way ever again....

Answer 12

maybe it was worth snooping....and if it's to your advantage then keep snooping...it all depends ...and if it takes to snoop and find out things then i would do it...and won't regret it

Answer 13

what's the half of the information. and yes i have regretted looking at letters and cards i've looked at, but i also don't because they showed how much of an idiot his ex was.

Answer 14

no you need to be informed

their are no secrets in a marriage

so if he is cheating on you you have the right to know

so you can proceed with divorce proceedings right now

Answer 15

I dont snoop...I dont feel i have a reason to

Answer 16

What did you peek at?

Answer 17

well, what's you question? So what, you did it, get over it and get on with your life. Don't like him like that, then leave him alone.

Answer 18

Curiosity killed the cat so they say.

Answer 19

no! if theres something thats being hidden I want to know.

Answer 20

just talk to him, maybe he'll be honest and if he lies, you'll know it. Good Luck!!

Answer 21

ya

Answer 22

wll, now you have to finish the job

Answer 23

if you go looking for trouble you'll usually find it

Answer 24

or would you rather live in ignorant bliss?

Answer 25

what did you do??? need more gossipy details!

Answer 26

what?

Answer 27

um... so?

Answer 28

what...?