Men....I was wondering what....?

Question

I can do to make me more desirable for my husband--what do you find attractive about a woman (looks, personality, attitude, etc.). I'm a great mother, keep myself in shape and am committed to my family, yet there seems to be something missing! Any advice or suggestions? Thanks!

Answer 1

Looks lose importance quickly, as long as the girl doesn't get 'sloppy' (which I know you're not).

Personality and attitude are very important in that it's how you interact during the day. If there's a lot of time spent arguing it's hard to let that go and want to be Intimate.

If everything else is good, then I think the most important thing is a very naughty side. I know you have a naughty side, so 'go figure'. Maybe a change in routine. I got home before my ex everyday and she hated that it seemed like I was always there. I changed that by running errands some nights on my way home. I found I liked coming home to her some nights too. So maybe it's something simple as changing your normal routine a bit.

Answer 2

How bout chemistry I think that is most important thing in a relationship. Two people who can be around each other no matter what they look like or personality and not enjoy life because that chemistry is missing. If you don't have that then yeah things get a little off like 2 people just living together not having a bond. I say do a hobby together or something as a couple to keep you close. Maybe flirt a little like you did when you were dating or try to spice things up.

Answer 3

Support him by being his Best Friend.



No one wants to be alone and we all enjoy having a best friend.



The most attractive trait of my wife is that she is my best friend. We have a lot in common, I enjoy her company, and I miss her when she is not near. Over the years, I have found that Friendship is more important than love. I see many couples in love, but do not spend time together. They have their own lives away from the other person.

In my opinion, you should Like the person, before you fall in love with them.



If your husband has a passion/interest/hobby, then try to make it your also. The common interest will give you reason to talk and spend time together. The more in common, the more time spent together. Hopefully this will lead to friendship.

Answer 4

I have to agree with "To Serve" He pretty much said exactly what I was thinking. be his best friend first an foremost. My wife and I are best friends and lovers. We can do everything together. Yes we have our separate things, we both like to do that the other really doesn't get into, but they don't happen very often because we have so much fun doing everything else together. We like the same movies, TV shows, music, eating places, friends, share the same views on some topics, we can talk about anything, just like you would do with on of your best friends. This keeps us in constant contact with each other while still allowing us to each have our own space from time to time. You dont have to Love the hobbies he might have, but it will speak a lot to him if you at least take an interest in it and try to learn what it's all about or what draws him to like it.

Answer 5

You are asking a bunch of strangers this question on what to do to make yourself more desirable. You need to talk to your husband about this one not total strangers. I am just guessing but I bet you are a stay at home Mom if so that is where the problem is. Most men do not respect their wife when it comes to being a housewife. I for one think it is a hard job however he probably thinks he is king of the castle and has you wrapped around his little pinky and you are not going to go anywhere. Talk to your husband. Check and see what is going on when you are not there you might be surprised.

Answer 6

If you are as you describe then your husband must think you are already very desirable! Sometimes married couples don't take time for themselves so maybe you should hire a babysitter, that is if you have young children, and you and your husband should go on a romantic date.

Answer 7

well i beleive if he really loves you e will be hsppy wth you no matter what you look like but as for me personality comes first then looks i like medium build and not a tooth pick a must have humor but thats just me oh ya and one more thing a nice butt and pretty eyes oh ya!! But from the pic of you i think you already have them and il bet he is very happy with you and if he is not just email me il make you happy and iam 41 to lol

Answer 8

We men sometimes look for someone to reassure us we are on the right path. We question careers, friendships, our self-image, etc. When you inquire and we discuss..even a single issue...that makes you very attractive and desirable to us. Most men would never admit this but it is true. I look for a partner who is willing to talk about my insecurities...I find it invaluable. Along with the things you mentioned you are proud of...open those lines of communication about him and your relationship improves

Answer 9

Suprise him every once in awhile with nights in Lingerie and make him feel special. I love that type of thing. I love it when my wife looks good by keeping her nails done, she watches her weight (as do I), does her hair and wears cute outfits. Attitude is important, make it known that yo uwant him all the time even if you don't, it works on me, lol....

Answer 10

if thats your picture there you look fine to me so if he's not finding you desirable he has the issue not you.



but to answer the question he found you very desirable when he met you and you dated. use whatever charm, dress, attitude, playfulness you did then and he should fall right back into place.



if not you can email me anytime lol

Answer 11

sometimes you just need to have a good attitude i know if my wife is always nagging all day then im not attracted to her but when she is in a cheerfull mood she couldnt be any sexier to me but thats just me all men have different wants and needs

Answer 12

I like thin woman, not "more to love".

Woman should not be feminists and MUST listen her husband.

Unfortunately, reading some of your posts i discovered that you dont belong to these criteria.

Answer 13

Sexuality and confidence with your sexuality!

Answer 14

You sound great to me. I can't help you.

Answer 15

thong and wedge shoes.

Answer 16

oral fixations is a start