Would it be hard for me to get a girlfriend if i am a occasional cross dresser ?

Question

I'm an 19 year old asian male, I'm vietnamese and i am a crossdresser, i occasionally cross dress as a girl in a dress with some high heels. First off, I'm not gay i'm 100 % straight and i know this because i am attracted to girls. I'm a little worried about the fact that i occasionally crossdress as a girl in those clothing and accessories would effect my chances of getting a girlfriend. Would it be hard for me to get a girlfriend if i'm a occasional cross dresser ? I only cross dress for about 3 hours and i change back into my normal clothes. Are there any girls who would actually like a man who cross dresses in their clothes ???

Answer 1

I have met women o.k with it so you will find someone. however if your young i wouldn't suggest revealing that just yet as they might not have the maturity to deal with something like that at this stage. P.s Do you have to tell them anyway??

Answer 2

Why do you dress up like a girl? There are girls out there that would accept and be ok with it, but it is something you should be upfront with them about. You should do some shopping in an upscale male boutique. You may find that if it's the fabric of women's clothing that you like that you can find classy pieces in the same fabric for men's clothing.

Answer 3

I think whatever your situation is and whatever need you have to do this, you should be up front with a girl about this secret side of yourself. Do your parents and friends know? If so, how did you tell them?



You have to understand that while this is a part of who you are, it could be a red flag for others and be a part of you that some girls are not willing to accept. But who knows...you two could share make-up tips!

Answer 4

i am a life long cross dresser, so i know what you going thru. you stated your not " gay! niether am i, but the way some people are going to view because either they do not understand, or they are just ignorant. i have dated women that love that i cross dress and think it hot and erotic. they also have enjoyed the fact can talk " girl talk " with me, especially when i am dressed. most men can not mentally admit to themselves that they have a definite feminine side of them and they either repress it or just pretend it does not exist. my relations with women on a whole have been exceptionally because i think. on the other hand i have known women who hated it, made fun of me because of it, and went out of their way to tell every one they knew about it. do i resent them or hate them for that? no! i think its kind of bizarre they spend that much energy on it. i am now presently in a extremely hard core bdsm femdom relationship with an older blk dominatrix, she demands i cross dress for her and that i am feminine. i am her owned slave and i love it. every day i had came true when i met her.

Answer 5

Definatly gunan hard for u to get a gf ....

Thats all very disturbing to me as a girl and i definatly wuydnt go out with a guy who puts on girl clothes ... but i d k maybe there is sum kinky who lieks tht

Answer 6

Sorry dude but this is 100% gay.



No REAL women is going to dig a dude in high heels, that is just weird.

Answer 7

if your going to act in drama then you dress as look female it make sense .

Answer 8

We are all married or divorced. Please ask this in singles and dating as they are actually actively seeking partners and would be better able to answer your question.

Answer 9

it would be tough