My step daughter is going to visit us next week, this is the first time she's going to see me. Her mom is still in love with my husband & she asked that she needs to talk to me about "her daughter needs".. i really don't know what could possibly b a 10 yrs girl "needs" b & i don't really feel like talking to her coz she's extremly rude & hates me... should i refuse to talk to her & sound weak or should i open a door i'll never lock in my life... plz help