Is your wife/husband like a ripe apple just waiting for a single person to pick them from the branch?

Question

If something is missing from a married man's life, he is like a ripe apple waiting to be picked!!! Some people say the other woman should keep her hands off him because he already has a wife. But his relationship with his wife leaves him lonely. And wives don't own their husbands. I think some single women tire of the crap they put up with from single men and decide to give a married man a chance with her instead. A man's marriage vows are only as sacred as he chooses them to be. If he is out there looking for another woman, he's making himself available. And, in the case of my friend and her lover/boyfriend, it seems to be working out!

When she first started seeing him, her reasoning was that she was tired of the crap single guys dump on women...tired of dating players. To her way of thinking, a married guy can barely manage to juggle his marriage and his affair and therefore if she dated a married guy the relationship might be more lasting and serious...less chance of him being a player. Seems she was right.

Now, a year into it, he is facing his wife can't give him the passion he needs to be happy. My friend owns a house, she is educated, she is very pretty, very smart, a good cook and a good homemaker, she is loyal and loving, they have common interests, and she desires him. When she looks in his eyes, he can see the passion in them for him...and that's NOT something he gets from his wife in their 18-year marriage. These days he is talking about his expecations for their relationship if he leaves his wife and knows it's not a question of if but when...since his feelings for my friend have grown stronger and stronger in the year they've been together.

I think if people don't want to lose their spouse to another, they should take a good hard look at their relationship and ask themselves whether their partner is like a ripe apple just waiting for the right man/woman to come and pluck them from the branch because if more and more single women start to realize a married man might be able to give them a more stable and lasting relationship than a single man, they might give up on single guys and just date married ones who are out there looking!!

Answer 1

Yes its a fact a lot of women and sometimes men cant face, if the passion isnt in their marriage, their partner can find it somewhere else.

Answer 2

I feel this way about unhappy married women. After 40, ready and willing women seemed to flow out of the woodwork. I had more sexual opportunity in a year than I had had in the previous 20 years.



Men and women married in their 20's are falling apart in their late 40's, and starting a new life. And part of that biology is that, for some reason, they are more sexually charged than ever - men and women both.



It got so bad, that I began to prefer married women to single ones because the married ones were "ripe" for the picking.



Wait for the divorce to be over? Somebody has been drinking kool-aid. People don't just end 20 year marriages with kids for something as trivial as unhappiness or sexual dissatisfaction. They PLAN to have affairs. The divorce only comes later, after their first or 2nd affair reveals to them just how unhappy they really are. Until that point, they live in a fog of uncertainty and misery.

Answer 3

So your friend is tired of messing with "single players"- being someone who is not looking for a commitment, and therefore keeps his availability wide open for many women. Yet, she is seeing a married man, who also has another woman at tow?



That, dear, sounds like a different type of player. If she wants someone who will be committed to her, and only her, then she needs to find a single man to make her own.



As is, this guy not only has a female to be his wife, but another to be his play toy.

Answer 4

Pears will ripen before the apples, and are probably ready now. Depends what part of the country you live in.You can tell when pears get ripe when their skin turns from green to pale yellow and the fruits begin to soften. Apples are ripe when they stop growing and develop nice red cheeks.

Answer 5

What a crock! If the guy isn't happy in his marriage then he needs to get the hell out instead of living a lie. Maybe he isn't getting passion from his wife of 18 years but i'll bet a lot that he sure as hell isn't GIVING any passion to his wife either. She's probably working and then going home to take care of kids, dinner, laundry and everything else that he doesn't have time to help with because he's out screwing some young single skank. As for her, she isn't worth wasting my energy on.

Answer 6

No matter how much you try to justify cheating, it remains wrong. If that same man had any brains, he'd work with his wife to have passion in his marriage. But he is a coward afraid of effort, and takes the coward's way out- he cheats instead.



He's an asshole, and your "friend" is a skanky tramp. I hope the wife goes postal and ices both of them.

Answer 7

Seems right to me. But kep in mind, this apple is picked, and will eventually get eaten or go bad unless kept fresh at all times.



By this I mean, that even if she does manage to get this guy, she and him both need to work on this so this will not happen to their relationship.

Answer 8

Single men && women are ripe for the pickin,married ppl are not

Answer 9

No, my wife more like ginormous watermelon. No one can pick her up due to years of fatness.

Tank you for ask, though.

Answer 10

every thing you said is true. wives need to stop taking there husbands for granted stop the nagging and stop turring down sex.

Answer 11

you're boring me. why don't you write a book or something and get paid for your tedious rant, though i wont be buying it--the book and your bullsh*t.