What some extreme bdsm (mistress/slave) things can I do with my lover tonight to ultimate level ?

Question

we just plan to do some extreme things tonight but not got any idea we love to play mistress/slave games aka bdsm we wanna do something extreme more than handcuffs and all we love it please tell some good ideas to spice up things

Answer 1

Well one way is to start by making him imagine that he's a submissive, wimpy boy who needs discipline.



Then you make sure he can only do certain things like relieve himself, with your permission.



Be prepared to spank him when necessary, and you can use some common household things to make sure he is ripe for the pickings.



First of all some twine or string, or narrow leather shoe strings would work great. Tie up his testicles, but not too tight and then make him understand that you will only be using one finger to examine him.



If he wimpers, then you know spank him and enter him. Call him some names and tell him if he releases anything without your permission, including his semen, you will severely punish him.



Ask him to do what you want him to do short of vaginal penetration, and service your needs first.



That's a start. Anything else requires ropes, pulleys, chains and an audience to watch you humiliate him.

Answer 2

Extreme Bdsm

Answer 3

Strap-on. This is very humiliating and extreme for straight men, however you use it on him. Another very extreme submission thing is cuckolding. If you can't/won't bring in a live third partner, you can always do something like make him lick your... while you have a very flirty phone call with an ex. Another good phone thing is to call someone he would never want his secret known to and chat away with them while he is subbing for you somehow. You don't need to reveal anything - just the fact this person (mother, best buddy, sister, hero) is on the phone while he is compromised (or even, um, being excited?) is usually a big buzz itself. Another good third person thing (if you are willing to actually do that) is to bring in someone to see him. Female witnesses are usually more ****** and less extreme than male, and people he knows are obviously more humiliating than those he doesn't.



If humiliation like that is not your thing, what about shaving? Or writing with permanent marker? Or crossdressing?



I'd go into more detail, but I don't want to get censored by the bluenoses. Good luck tonight!

Answer 4

This will take to long so not tonight. Buy a suspension cuffs set. Go to the hardware store get a winch some whats called eyes to screw into the ceiling and walls, strong rope, An engine load leveler, for removing a motor OH and a flogger leather one.. . Then install everything and cuff your mate up string em up and flog away. Gag optional. But highly recommended..

Answer 5

Most 'extreme' bdsm activities are going to take some pre-planning, so asking about tonight is tough. In the future you can plan ahead by purchasing soft rope and doing research online about bondage techniques. You can play with denial/humiliation if he is into it. Name calling, writting nasty things on his body in sharpe marker and making him wear them to work the next day under his clothes. You can buy him a dog collar and make him eat on the ground, restrict him from making human words or noises and force him to crawl on all fours while leashed. You can make/buy a cage to lock him into while you run errands or clean the house. You can have him treat you like a goddess and practice body worship. Be creative and do a little research.

Answer 6

well, considering that BDSM relationships are based on safe sane and consensual and the basis for the lifestyle is also about negotiating how about you discuss it with your lover. Find out limits and a safe word and safety issues.



Sincerely,

Cait

Answer 7

You can handcuff both his hands and feet, or get the dual cuffs and bind him with both from behind.

You can also get a paddle and paddle his behind.

You can dress up like a school teacher or librarian with eyeglasses and smack his hand or bottom with a ruler when he speaks or misbehaves.

Answer 8

Spend an evening with him and his friends Picking up Beer cans and watching 'The Footie'.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

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Answer 11

My Mistress uses my mouth as her "personal toilet" It is awful but she loves it and I love the smile she has as I chew.

Answer 12

Indian women are already slaves to the husband and his family, why do you need to play again.

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Answer 13

Idk. Like a slavery thing? Last supper? Noah's ark?