I have a free ticket to cheat on my gf should I use it?

Question

She had sex with my best friend and I knew about it. To weak too do anything, she led him on and they eventually did it? Now that I know how she feels should I leave her and My child or use the free ticket and stay with her?

Answer 1

No, you should not use ticket. Don't make yourself be in her standard. If you can't forgive her and move on, just leave her, not your child!!! Why would you want to leave your child?? That is really bad.

Answer 2

I would suggest you do neither of those things. How about forgive her and stay with your child? I'm guessing you're not that old - but old enough to be considered a man. Being a man means more than just bringing children into the world then buggering off and leaving them to grow up on their own. Sure you're hurt - who wouldn't be - but why do you have to use the "free ticket"? To get even? Make yourself feel better? I can assure you you won't feel any better about this thing if you do that. My advice - sit down with your girlfriend - tell her you're hurt - it's ok - men do get hurt. Tell her you hate what she did BUT you're prepared to forgive her if she never does it to you again. Tell her you're prepared to do this because of your child. Then NEVER bring it up again. That's what a real man would do. Your child needs you more than you can ever know - if you leave - you will probably screw up his or her life - is that fair - all because of their stupid mother's antics? Be bigger than both your alleged best friend ( who is also a prize azzhole) and your girlfriend. Show her what's she stands to lose if you do walk out - A real man.

Answer 3

no you shouldnt stay cause it will eventually eat you up inside an you dam well know that every little future fight you guys will end up haveing will result in talking bout that subject, so i suggest to take a break, then think can i still appreaciate her the same knowing what she did to me? if you cant then move on but try to become mature friends for you childs sake, but if you decide to cheat back then doesnt that make it ok if she cheats again??? so sooner or later wouldn't that mean that you guys will eventually become one of those couples that is always cheating, the love will fade an you guys will just end up staying for the comfort... now is that what you want?

Answer 4

I could never stay with anyone who cheated on me. The relationship will always lack trust and commitment. That said, two wrongs don't make a right. If you decide to stay with your gf, don't take the "free card". If you can forgive her, you have to be the bigger person. How messed up of a relationship will you have if you both cheat on each other?

Answer 5

These aren't your only options. Do you want to leave her? Do you want to stay with her? Do you want to have sex with someone else? You have a child, so act like an adult and decide if your relationship is worth working out. The whole free ticket idea is immature.

Answer 6

Normally I would say don't stoop to her level but if using the free ticket would make everything even, I say go for it. Of course from that point on you need to repair the relationship. I know people will say two wrongs don't make a right but sometimes you just need to "cancel out" the other factor by creating it's equal. Just don't put your child in the middle of this, any decision you make affects the child and his life, just make sure he feel loved from both parents. Good luck!

Answer 7

Just because she did something terribley wrong, doesn't mean you should do the same. No, it does not mean you have a "free ticket". It just means that your girlfriend needs to learn what loyality really is. Especially when you have a child. That's horrible if you have a child, and your girlfriend cheats on you, and you want to do the same. I would just talk your girlfriend.

Answer 8

I really don't think you have a free ticket...

Do you want revenge or something...

This is all twisted, if you aren't in love you need to break up.

But you also need to consider your child, what is best for him/her? You can't be in a loveless relationship where you are constantly cheating on each other. That is no way to live. Good Luck.

Answer 9

i wouldnt call that a free ticket. If you choose to stay with her- you guys should be looking for ways to get better and heal from this- seek counseling- especially if theres a kid involved. If you use this "free ticket", you're only adding even more pain, resentment and mistrust to the situation- making it so much harder to climb back out of that hole. Please don't so it- be the bigger person-

besides- it might be a better "card" to hold- knowing that she'll always know that she screwed up- and you never stooped to her level- regardless.....

best of luck

Answer 10

No. Break it off with her. You don't need to be with her to raise your child (so long as she isn't the mother). If its the both of yours then you need to work out some sort of arrangement but, still give her the boot. No need to cheat. Just end it with her and see the "free ticket".

Answer 11

well if she cheated with your bestfriend and your bestfriend also took the bait well they deserve one another and you shouldnt have to feel like you need advice follow your heart dont react on your anger as long as your child has you and you take care of the child then she sealed her own fate and doesnt deserve you she couldve and your bestfriend couldve slept with anyone else why eachother???so dont ever leave your child try your best to participate in the babys life regardless of what the situation is but if you can look her in the face everyday and except what they have done then work it out if not you know the answer already!!! you and her can explain to your child when ready to understand the truth you didnt cause her to cheat she decided to cheat???

Answer 12

There's no such thing as a "free ticket" like this...If you cheat, she'll forever throw it back in your face (even tho it seems ridiculous because she cheated first, she WILL find a way!).



You can't trust her again so what's the point? If she really loved you she wouldn't have cheated and she wouldn't want you to cheat either.



Then again, if you want to stoop to the gutter and stay then go ahead and cheat...just make sure your hookup is WAY hotter and preferably one of her enemies. =)

Answer 13

use the ticket...



naaa just be bigger than her and leave her.. and I suggest you take the child and take care of him/her yourself... cheating on her is not going to help at all... you don't want to be like her do you? Do NOT listen to anyone here that says use the ticket if you think it evens the playing field... because i doubt it does. Just leave and find yourself a woman that you can trust.

Answer 14

Some wife you have, cheating on you, and worse of all your best friend, I say up and leave, and take the child too, she doesn't deserve to stay married to you.

Answer 15

If my boyfriend ever cheated on me, that would be it. He would be gone forever. Do you love her? And is she TRULY sorry for what she did? If you do then stay with her and don't use your "free ticket to cheat"



Also you should ask her if she really loves you, because if you're in love with someone why would you want to cheat on them??

Answer 16

It is not about what you should or may do.You have a child so please sort it out and think of the innocent one involved.Use the ticket and take them away for a day or two and talk everything over what is worrying you.

Answer 17

go ahead cheat on her and use the free ticket as well for your child sake

Answer 18

That's not a free ticket to cheat. If you don't love her and can't forgive her, then leave, don't ever use another's actions to lower your own standards.

Answer 19

Yes, by all means. Cheat on the mother of your child, 'causeTHAT will make you a better person (NOT). And she's a sl*t anyway. You're all going to get STD's.

Answer 20

She is not worth staying with. Leave her in your past, and don't let her get to you. You dont want to regret staying with her, u should just stick up for yourself, and go looking for a more commited person.

Answer 21

Once a cheater always a cheater. First of all she did it with your BEST FRIEND! And i bet she knew it was your best friend. You probably felt very bad. Have a talk with your best friend. Tell him how you feel. Then dump her. Then if your best friend is truly a friend. He will not have sex with her again. Then she will feel really bad about what she did.

Answer 22

why are you with her?

dude she's gana cheat on you again and again

dump her and find someone else with out her being there to tie you down



remember once a cheat always a cheater dont become her

Answer 23

This whole situation sounds so dysfunctional I don't even know where to begin. Do you really think you'll solve any problems by cheating on her?!

Answer 24

Confront her about this. Most definitely do not make any ignorant moves.

You may be asking now what ignorant moves are there to make... well thats for you to find out...

Answer 25

Take the kid and go. That way you can get as much *** as you want without feeling guilty.

Answer 26

it's never been alright to cheat.she did it, but who said it makes sense to do the same mistake she did.fix this problem and get on with your lives

Answer 27

yeah but who are u gonna cheat with? women have sex on tap

Answer 28

Wow...you can tell that your relationship sure isnt going to last much longer.

Answer 29

Watch out for a sucker punch !!

Answer 30

leave her thats a horrible thing she did to you

Answer 31

Dude don't abandon you kid for her mistake. Make her do a threesome with you for it...

Answer 32

just give it back to her so she can ride the bus

Answer 33

take your child and get out...

Answer 34

No!!! Why would you if you and your wife have a good relationship would you risk it?