I am married for 13 yrs and my friend has been married for the same. We both have children and we say "we love our spouses" but, we spend every moment with each Other that we can possibly try to do. The both of us have told each other that neither will leave their spouse. It's almost uncontrollable when we are together. There is a passion there that has been lost for a long time. We both understand the ramifications of us being together. The loneliness can be overwhelming and we provide comfort with each other? What should i do?