Question:
How do you reinvent yourself after a divorce?
2017-01-26 14:29:08 UTC
I have one child from the marriage he is only 7months old. I am not even 30 yet people tell me I am still young and can reinvent myself. But I dont know how. Especially after years of verbal abuse
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2017-01-30 15:44:06 UTC
Sorry for divorce. Know and understand this, At the time of misteries you will be left alone. You will be blamed for everything and society sees you as culprit. Do not feel as there is a fault in you.Your past is hard fact it will never leave you, it will be asked again again accept it donot try to hide it be brave. Restore yourself. Build confidence in yourself and get married soon as early as possible.As your child needs a home and a mother.
2017-01-28 22:04:57 UTC
reinvent yourself after a divorce? Roman Catholic sign of the cross is upside down, done with five fingers instead of three, is done from left to right instead of right to left, etc. (basically inviting demons). Antichrist's Third Temple will have 8 chambers: a chamber per main religion; antichrist will be crowned in this temple; during crowning, he won't read the "belief prayer" correctly (rejecting Christ and acknowledging himself); when he will take his gloves off to make sign of the cross incorrectly (just for show), many people will see his big nails and will reject him; Patriarch (who will be crowning him) will say that this is the antichrist; antichrist will kill him. Also, antichrist will kill those priests who disagree with him at the 8th "wolf" Council; others will worship him when a bird dies at his feet. Roman Catholics, Satanists, and Buddhists use the same mudras; if you see these mudras on an icon, then it's not Orthodox icon; Orthodox icon has IC XC symbol (Jesus Christ). Roman Catholics pay drunks and prostitutes to pose for icons; passions of drunks and prostitutes transfer to those who pray to these images. Normal Orthodox icons are inspired by the Holy Spirit. Gaad in Ruski = Satan; hence, Americans = blasphemers because they always say: "Oh, my god!". Santa (word for Saint in Satanic languages) = Satan; hence, Spanish + Italian + Portuguese = blasphemers. Anathema to Satanic languages; triple anathema. Learn Church Slavonic; no curses in it; curses = prayer to Satan. All religions except Orthodoxy worship Satan. On bread for communion: IC XC NIKA (Jesus Christ Conquers) plus cross = Orthodox; hexagram plus Dusha Maya = antichrist. Jews and Muslims pray head down (either standing, bowing, or kneeling); this is Satanic prayer. Orthodox look into the eyes of icon; energy goes their way; they get healed; head and shoulders come together to reject Satan slowly and then fast to normal showing allegiance to Christ and not the devil. Hands cannot be on groin or behind back; either put them crossing each other on chest (right over left) or just by your sides. Legs together so that a demon doesn't run underneath your legs. Clergy who will not "put Buddhist icons and serve antichrist's blood" will be killed; only 7 churches will be left as Pelageya of Ryazan predicted. In 2006 and at other meetings, fake patriarchs and bishops signed a bunch of documents betraying Orthodoxy by saying that all religions worship the same Supreme Being; triple anathema; don't let heretics tell you what to do. America will be last country to switch to Euro. Three big earthquakes will shake the three superpowers; 1st big earthquake in Russia; 2nd (bigger one) in China; 3rd (biggest of the three) will be in America. NATO will nuke Ukraine to blame Russia for it; then NATO will nuke Russia from Scandinavia. China will attack Russia; but will not get past Ural Mountains; bio-genetic weapon will be used against Chinese soldiers (they will run back to China and hide in closets in fear) and weather weapon will freeze Siberia to - 200 Celcius; stadium-size chunks of unmeltable ice will fall from the lower sky (because when rockets go into higher sky they bring this ice down to lower sky). Russia will destroy Turkey and America. China will have a hole across the whole country to the abyss (because of another super weapon used to stop Chinese aggression); radiation from this hole will be massive; Chinese will try to keep quiet about it; a lot of people will fall into this hole.

Scientists don't see dinosaurs because of radiation. Only Eurasia and Alaska (both without coasts) will remain after demons blow up Antarctica (which surrounds the flat earth) and Greenland melts. Move to Ural Mountains or inland Alaska. Sionists wanted war between Russia and Germany from June 11th to October 11th on their holidays because (666 times 3)+(6 times 3) = 2016 (in their twisted logic).

Tube people = demons. Clones = demons. Human costumes that demons wear = demons. Dinosaurs and 666ed people have triple stranded DNA; normal person can't swallow 666ed food (designed for 666ed people). Demons live inside clones. Bacteriologist Alexandre Yersin (who discovered Bubonic plague) is depicted on the Shroud of Turin. There is another shroud (Shroud of Milan) on which blasphemer Yosef (who was crucified on a pole in 1066 AD) is depicted. Menachem Mendel Schneerson, Lenin (el=deity in Hebrew, nine = no in German; so, when chanted repeatedly is blasphemy against the Creator), and Yosef were possessed by Azazel; now, Rico Cortes is possessed by Azazel.

WW3 happens; 7% of people will be left; after people are tired of war, they will elect the antichrist as one world leader; don't vote. ISIS stands for Israeli Secret Intelligence Service. Next false flag: Statue of Liberty in order to attack Iran; one big shake, one giant step forward, one giant collapse. Move away from coasts as nukes will go off in the ocean (at where tectonic plates meet; result: megatsunamis 1km high).

Wear natural clothing so that if a bomb goes off it won't stick to the body as fast as synthetic clothes. All metal will be burned for fuel; so, save knives, crowbars, shovels, wood-burning stoves, etc. Also, save cloth/fabric/textile to cover the wounds and diseases.

Eat natural food because nanochips, cells of aborted fetuses, bug DNA, and other poisons are in food that is commonly sold; reject vaccines, medical care, medicine, etc. because nanochips are administered thru IVs, implants, fillings, etc. If 1000-1500 nanochips are in your right hand, then you can't make proper Orthodox sign of the cross with the right hand; last mercy for you then will be to cut the hand off.

Seraphim of Sarov and Sergiy of Radonezh will be resurrected after WW3 for a short time; Seraphim of Sarov will show the new Ruski Tsar who will fight the antichrist for about 2 years and 8 months. Those who go see Seraphim of Sarov will be healed of their infirmities/illnesses/sicknesses/ diseases; if you want to see him then, hurry because he won't stay longer than a few weeks.

Earth is flat; stands on 3 pillars (the Most Holy Trinity); pillars stand on water at zero Kelvin. Zodiac is planetary prison of demons; don't believe in horoscopes or you'll exhibit the traits of the trapped demons. Most thoughts and dreams are from demons; demons never do good. Sleep fully clothed; pray the Jesus prayer. Pray to your guardian angel to have normal sleep.

Humans were created about 7525 years ago. Ruski Orthodox Christian Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov was the last prophet before Enoch and Elijah return to preach against the antichrist.

Birds participate in time creation. It's a sin to kill birds. Dinosaurs live under our level. They will get out through sinkholes and lakes. To kill them, go for their nerves. Save the birds; but kill the dinosaurs. First dinosaur will come out of Volga River in Russia.

Demons grow human skin (from a sample taken during abduction) and put it on so as to look like us. Demons will invite people to be healed inside their UFOs; those who go will be like zombies after. Gov't provides demons with diamonds and allows demons to abduct people. If you're being abducted, slowly pray the Jesus prayer.



Don't panic. Demons use diamonds and souls to power their UFO craft. The bigger the diamond, the more it lasts. Demons have 4 UFO bases: 1)Moon 2)Inside fake mountain Kailash in Tibet 3)In lake Baikal in Russia 4)In Atlantis which is underneath the Mariana Trench in Pacific Ocean. There are no aliens. Nobody lives on other planets.

Airplanes that go down are hit by demons because they need the airspace to fight Jesus. Antichrist is pale with red eyes. He's possessed by Satan since he's 12 years old. He flies very fast; deceived people will say that "Christ is here; Christ is there". Sometimes, he wears blue robe over left shoulder while red robe is underneath. He wears gloves to hide long nails. He's surrounded by demons who appear as angels of light. Antichrist will trick people to believe that he can do mountain moving and resurrection (using holograms); fire from the sky is easy (considering the gases from pollution in the atmosphere).

Don't go into a UFO to be healed by demons. Green 666 is given by isotope rays on wrist or forehead when people stretch hands to receive small plastic grey card with no name on it (World Passport). Police will microchip and isotope ray people on the highways. Microchipped people will be influenced by computers to take grey plastic card; but when they do, 666 is given. Food stores will isotope ray people too. Antichrist will also release prisoners to mark people. Reject 666 at all cost because it leads to permanent hell.

If you're about to be marked, pray the Jesus prayer. Hide with Orthodox Christians to escape 666; leave all electronics behind so that antichrist's minions can't track you. Burn documents because they're from Satan. Give to charity in the name of Archangel Michael; he rescues people from temporary hell twice a year (or brings them up a level, that is, to a level with less punishment; eventually, people are freed). Feed the pigeons; when pigeons bow down, people are saved from temporary hell. Forgive me.



https://youtube.com/watch?v=8dub8PF2d8E

http://fatheralexander.org/graphics/sects_e.pdf

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https://vk.com/wall-25720730?q=рязанская&w=wall-25720730_57029%2Fall



https://youtube.com/channel/UCql8z99xa5QH8nSdkfnzIkw/videos

http://vk.com/otrok_slava?w=wall-31832035_103469%2Fall

http://orthodoxinfo.com/praxis/guidech3.pdf

http://fatheralexander.org/booklets/english/life_after_death.htm

http://pravoslavie.ru/english/55141.htm
Dick
2017-01-26 19:44:32 UTC
My wife left me to raise 4 girls on my own. I thought my world had ended. It didn't. Friends helped, supported, and made suggestions that worked. Here's what worked! I started dating again. After 20 years, I wasn't sure what to do. I did it anyway. I started a physical relationship ASAP. That gave me confidence, and it was enough fun, that it distracted me from feeling sorry for myself. I bought some more stylish clothes to wear on dates. I bought a red convertible sports car. I started week-ending in Vail, and Aspen. Suddenly I (the prototypical nerd) was popular! I enjoyed having 2 or 3 simultaneous affairs for the next 10 years. It was a glorious time, of pleasure and discovery. My next wife was about perfect!!!
BeatriceBatten
2017-01-26 17:52:31 UTC
Therapy to help you heal and learn from the verbal abuse.



Other than that, you don't need to "reinvent" yourself. You shouldn't be someone you're not.



If you want a fresh look and a fresh start, get a new haircut and some new clothes. Join a gym to get healthy and build energy and confidence. Start socializing through work, Meetup.com groups, happy hour, ask friends to set you up with new friends or dates, join a dating website, etc.
Patricia
2017-01-26 16:48:54 UTC
Hi. so sorry for your situation. You're going to have to take time to heal and get your life back together. The great thing is, you're no longer with that husband, and do not have to tolerate abuse.



There are websites out there about Surviving a Divorce. Maybe it would be a good start to do some reading? There are likely forums out there for divorced people too -- might be a good way to see how others are coping?



You don't have to dive into dating or do anything you don't want to do. In fact, give yourself time to heal. Your focus probably needs to be on your child and yourself for a while now.



Best wishes.
2017-01-26 16:11:58 UTC
You're not required to reinvent yourself, but you may if you choose to. In other words, be whomever you want to be. You aren't limited by being in a relationship and having to consider someone else's needs, desires, or limitations. You can do or be whatever you want and the only limits are the ones you put on yourself.



If you are happy with the person you are now, then remain that person. Otherwise, decide what you want to do with your life and how you want to go about changing it (if changes are needed) and then start pursuing that.
?
2017-01-26 14:43:51 UTC
How exciting for you! You congratulate yourself for getting out, you then congratulate yourself for being strong and brave. You take all step you need to protect yourself and your your son be that changing your names, moving or only having a select few trusted people in your world. Get a new haircut, buy new clothes, do all the things you can now without fear of abuse or "consequences". Join mother and baby groups, you can find these via your local mother and baby clinic, you will soon find new friends and put your bad marriage down to a temporary error in judgement. Be happy and good luck xx
Caroline
2017-01-26 14:41:11 UTC
I was in the same position although physical abuse was also part of my drama. I was lucky in that I already had a college degree (although you'd think I would have been smarter than to hook up with such a loser but whatev). I moved back home and lived in my parents' basement with my 1 y.o. daughter for a year, found a daycare for my daughter, found a job, got a master's degree, moved into a one BR apt after a year, and at 30 bought a nice 2 BR townhouse for me and my daughter so she could be in a good school district. She's 26 now, I'm 51 and have been happily remarried for going on 11 years.

How did I do it? I realized that I didn't want my daughter to think that what I was going through in my marriage was normal. I wanted her to see that women are strong and capable and can love and appreciate men without NEEDING them in the sense of being entirely dependent. So I made sure I modeled that for her, both in my words and in my actions.

Was it tough? Yes. I was lucky that someone was willing to pay for my daughter's daycare costs at first, and she also paid for my master's degree. My parents were very little help but they were there for me in their own way. My best advice is to find other single moms/parents...take a baby class in your area, maybe a Yoga/Baby class or some kind of activity that you enjoy where Baby can come, and you'll meet other people who are in your situation. They are millions of us out there and we can sympathize and encourage you when you need it most, more than family sometimes and/or well meaning friends.

Hope that helps and I wish you the best.
2017-01-26 14:31:14 UTC
i was always perfect so i did not need to reinvent myself after my divorce. got very successfully married quite soon


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