My marriage is BS and Lies Cont 3?

Question

Hello for sometime me and my wife have our problems. I even though that she was cheating I confront her and she said no. I bought a keylogger and my worst fear came true. She been seeing this guy before we were married. Im basically sick to my stomach our marriage is build on BS and Lies, Lies to God, Lies to all who attended our marriage and Lies to me. I know its wrong to hack in her email but I had to know because her reason of not wanting to be married anymore is BS reason to get a divorce its just a BS excuse. This is fukkkkked up! this guy she seeing came to our wedding last yr I want to fukkkking beat the living day lights out of him

Series Questions what would you guys do if you was in my shoes? We was married in August of 2007 and she wrote him in February saying she love him and want to be with him. That he her perfect man. I cant begin to tell you how pissed off I am now. We are separating I just need my own space right now

Well I drive by dude house lastnight and I see my wife car park there. I want to go to his house and beat the fukkk out of him if you was me what would you do?

Answer 1

why can't you just move on? stop snooping around, stop asking if shes cheating (you know deep down she will lie every time) stop following her, stop telling yourself you want to beat him up. just MOVE FREAKEN MOVE THE HECK ON!!! what more evidence do you need? you know the facts already. you're wasting all this time and energy on those two whores who are not even worth it.



her cheater to show up at your wedding, Gosh, i don't think i can begin to imagine how you felt. if she would rather have a man who is willing to cheat with her, knowing that you are her husband, and if HE is willing to have a hoe who is willing to cheat on her husband, then so be it. they are perfect for each other and 9 out of 10, she will probably realize what a gift you are that she threw away much later on in her life. you are bound to find somebody else who will take marriage seriously. this time ask God to guide you. ask God if she is the one, ask God if marriage would the right time here and there. with God you can't go wrong.





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and this whole mess is really HER fault, she need she had a lover she obviously showed more attention and attraction to, but yet she let the marriage continue. she is an idiot.

Answer 2

I am really sorry this happened to you. Your wife is not worth going to jail for if you were to beat up this guy. Go to the gym, beat on something there, get your aggression out! She will continue to lie until you show her the evidence. Don't be taken for a fool, see a lawyer and protect yourself. Good luck

Answer 3

Gather all the evidence you have in hand.

Make hardcopies if possible.

Present them to your divorce attorney.

Let the attorney use them as neat as possible to your benefit.

But... do not resort in any kind of violence towards her or the other guy. Physical or mental.

It will not be to your benefit.

And what you need right now is to get out of the situation as bloodless as possible.



Your revenge will be that she gets absolutely nothing from you.



Good luck pal!

Answer 4

Assaulting him would only land you in jail and then she still gets rid of you. Youre best bet would be to file for divorce on grounds of adultery, hopefully get out with your shirt still on, and move on. Now if she wants the divorce then deal with her outside the courts as youll be far better off and you might get to keep your wardrobe too. Unfortunately, this crap happens all too often nowadays. Sorry about your marriage but time has come for you to move on to someone better for you

Answer 5

This is going to be hard advice to follow but you've got to get a hold of

yourself! Beating this guy up may give you temporary satisfaction, but

it will only multiply your problems. Someone could get killed. Let her

go- she'll probably wind up screwing around on this guy too. But she'll

be someone else's problem.

Answer 6

Move on. She obviously wants to be with him and not you, so let her go and find someone that truly wants to be with you. It sucks to let it end that way, but be the bigger person. Karma will come back to her, and if you let it alone, you'll see. If you do anything (like fight him or her or try to make something work out of nothing) then you'll be the one to suffer in the end.

Answer 7

Here is some advise for you.



Get the divorce papers filled out and kick her out of the house.



GET PICTURES OF HER CAR AT HIS HOUSE. Show her.



COPY THE EMAIL. Show her.



CONFRONT THE GUY, BUT PLEASE NOT PHYSICALLY.



HE REALLY DID YOU A FAVOR.



HE IS NOT THE ENEMY, FROM MY PERSPECTIVE.



YOU MARRIED HER, SHE MESSED UP !!! !!! !!! !!!!



OH AND BY THE WAY, I STRONGLY SUGGEST THAT YOU GET TESTED FOR STD's including AIDS.



She may not have been honest at all about anything. She has been with him and basically anyone who he has been with.

Answer 8

She sounds like a piece of **** to me. He isn't worth going to jail over either. I would separate from her and never talk to her again. Let the other man have her. It's what he deserves. She will probably do the same to him eventually.

Answer 9

I WOULD JUST MOVE ON!! SHE ISNT WORTH THE MISERY!!! there wouldnt even be a point in saving the marriage because she was lieing from the beginning.!

Answer 10

Make sure you have copies of her emails to the other guy on hand, when you file for divorce... That will f**k her up totally, and Im sure she will get nothing from you? (maybe)

Answer 11

It is your wife who has a duty of fidelity to you, not he.



But do beat him up a little as a lesson that screwing other men's wives is not all pleasure.

Answer 12

shove the email in her face

take a pic of her car in front of his house

print it show it to her too

throw her bags outta the house

divorce her cheatin a$$

Answer 13

I had this and this is very hard to deal with

Answer 14

You see it. You know it. She's a liar. He's a liar.



Takes two.



Move on.