Do you think he is cheating on me? pls help ?

Question

My boyfriend of three months never speaks to me when he goes to his apartment home and whenever i ask him why? he gives me very vague answers.He have baby boy who is 3 years old with his ex according to him.The ex girl friend and my bf live in the same apartment and I found that very weird so i asked him why is that so? His answer was because she is with the baby and looks after the child full stop.I asked him many times if he have feelings for the lady but he always tells me no i dont love her and she is my ex so stop asking me that questions again. He switchs his mobile phone off whenever he steps to his house and the reason is unknown to me but my sixth sense tells me that he might be with that woman and he is having me on the sideline (that is just my gut feeling and nothing sure). Again whenever i ask him why is his mobile off he gives me very vague answers and i try to play the dumb so i just wanna see were this will lead to.He lied to me on numeruous occasions and i tell him yeah ok but i dont understand why would he act this shady with me.First day i met him,every word he told me about his personality is 100% different.He told me he is calm and honest,what i have seen for the last three months is loud and lying person. I love him unfortunately but dont see why i should ignore all the signs.What advice would you give me?

Im 26 years old and he is 35

I want some good advice and what do u think of the situation.

Answer 1

again... you ask..... get a life lady







he is married.... this is the last time I am telling you this.

Answer 2

There is a definite possibility that he could still be with this other woman. Maybe one day drop by his apartment to say hello to him. If his ex is there talk to her. Not about your relationship with this guy. Just try to figure out what's going on. If nothing is going on then this is all very weird. If something is going on you should dump him. He has a child with this woman.

Answer 3

Your the other women!!!! Guys say things like that when they want you to be ok with her being there and if she ever answers the phone you wont freak. Sorry to say that your the other women and that means he is cheating on you and her. Maybe you should drop by his home one day to clear things up when you know he isn't home. Like make plans with him to meet him for dinner or something out so you know that he isn't home and then drop by. See what she has to say about it!!!



Also if he will do it to her he will do it to you! Once a cheater always a cheater. You already know he's a liar and that's enough to not make a future with him.

Answer 4

Walk away. Think about it.....they do have a child together, but that doesn't mean they have to be together. And for him not to talk to you whenever he is not at home, he is not only lying to himself but her as well. If he truly saw a future with you, or anyone, he'd move out and get his own place. If he cant moe out, then he must either:



(A) Still be with her and is a cheater

(B) Is a loser and wont or cant get a place of his own.

(C)Both



Move on if he cant fully commit to you. If he is serious and sees a future with you, he'd change it all. Time for that talk!





Good Luck!

Answer 5

**** hell yes.Are you crazy to ask that.He is liar and loser.You are young why settle for moron like that. What kills me is that he keeps insisting and continue to lie.He was never in love with you and most probably is laughing about you.Get out of it before you are emotionally attached to the fool.There are plenty of fish in the sea

Answer 6

u posted this twice and i answered the first one but i came up with an even better idea! go to him and his "ex" like go on valentines day and say u wanted to suprise him! if the "ex" is like "who the hell or u and y do u want my man" then youll know!!

Answer 7

She isn't his ex they are still married so he is cheating on her NOT you.



Yea i got some advice dump the chump before you get your heartbroken.



You are probably not the only "other" woman in his life.

Answer 8

He's cheating. He's an asshole. Get him out of your life and find someone who is not a pig. You are better off alone than with that creep.

Answer 9

sorry, honey. he has you fooled. you don't love him. you just think you can't do better. however, you can and you should. do you really think they're living together and nothing is going on? please wake up and get out of the situation.

Answer 10

He's not cheating on you.

He's cheating on HER!

Dump this loser, he'll always be two-timing somebody.

Answer 11

He is cheating with you. You are the other woman.

Answer 12

Check his pulse. Does he have one? Then he's cheating.

Answer 13

i think hes cheating on you since he still lives with her.