I'm really depressed..my husband tries to control me like i'm his child. if he thinks i'm cheating he takes the cell phone from me until he's ready to give it back. now its the car. he said previously that he was going his way and i was going my way for new years..then i overheard him talking to one of his relatives about going out together..but today he changes up and like where r we going today i'm like i thought u said that we were going our seperate ways. he said nothing so i took it as a yes. but when i went out the stuff hit the fan. now hes ready to leave me cuz he thinks i'm cheating cuz i started going out by myself lately and he says i cant drive the car anymore but we're married 12 years to b exact. im not cheating. i just dont wanna keep living my life like a hermet. he keeps me in. i can't associate with anyone without him having issues. he has a problem if i stay at my moms house too long even. am i just being over emotional or is he controlling and i should do something.