Getting Back Together - Most Effective Methods Of Getting Back Together?

Question

Can anyone help me out or give me a good advice or methods on getting back together with my ex. I know it is not an easy to getting back together especially when I'm the one who dumped her.

I believe there must be a way and the best is from those who has experiencing getting back together after break up.

I always thinking of how we can getting back together but just do not want to make this worst if my approach is wrong.

Appreciate if one can share their experience on getting back together after break up.

Answer 1

Here's some advice for how to getting back together.



1st Advice on Getting Back Together



Please do not be obnoxious. I know there's some bad feeling in the air, but you have to work to lower the tension level, not raise it. Force yourself to be nice! Of course, if you feel like an absolute phony, then you might have to ask yourself if you really do want to gettting back together.



It's hard to be nice, but it's even tougher if your ex is seeing someone new! That's what happened to me. Initially I was very bitter and abrasive towards my ex. Fortunately, I got some excellent advice and began to be nice and agreeable instead. This is an important first step, because it plants a seed in your ex's head that maybe he or she made a big mistake when they split up with you.



It's easy to make mistakes when you're with someone you love. That's because there's a tendency to act emotionally all the time. For instance, I couldn't stop thinking about my boyfriend after we broke up. I wanted to see him. I called him all the time and left nagging, complaining messages. I attempted to make him jealous. I even lied to him. Trust me, this kind of behavior is only going to drive your ex even further away. Don't do it!



Again, I followed the advice I had received and totally left him alone for a period of time. I concentrated on myself instead. Then, when we finally did meet again, I was very nice and sweet. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" as they say. It's so true!



If you don't leave your ex alone then he or she's is not going to start thinking of you in a positive way again. You've got to let them remember what they saw in you in the first place. They can't do that if you're in their face all the time.



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Answer 2

Honesty is best. Fooling around with games is just going to annoy her and make things worse. Contact her and tell her you regret breaking up with her and would like to give it another chance. Then offer a time you guys can meet up, if she wants, so you can talk it over with her and see how things go. Say if she needs time this meeting place can be sometime in the future specified by her e.g. next month. If she is still interested in you then she will probably like that opportunity (assuming you didn't screw her over badly). If she says no then there's not much else you can do.

Answer 3

Honesty, plain and simple. Contact your ex, tell her that you made a terrible mistake and that you'd like her to give you another try. Being sincere, open and honest is the best route to take.



Good luck! I hope everything turns out well for you.

Answer 4

all you can do is start all over, take it slow and don't push, don't try to impress her let nature take it's course and as for you make sure this time this is what you want, after all you dumped her it might take awhile depending on how hurt she is but if she takes you back and you dump her again it would be devastating you have to earn her trust and respect

Answer 5

well all i will say is tell her how you feel, sometimes that is the best way to get back together, everything will fall into place by just telling her that!!! Good Luck!!!