Question:
Are there any men who don't cheat?
LALA 12345
2007-06-18 08:27:43 UTC
I mean really! Are there any men in the world who do not/would not cheat on their wives? Also, what causes a man to cheat?

Thanks!
29 answers:
Flagger
2007-06-18 08:51:58 UTC
I have not for 32 years.

Is that long enough?



I think you will find that women cheat with nthe same frequency.
Dagoberto N
2007-06-18 15:36:05 UTC
Well yes there are men that don't cheat on their wifes but the problem is that they are not a alot of them you have to look very closely. What causes a man to cheat the man has an animal instinc that makes them want more women but that is no excuse to cheat on their wifes men can overcome this feeling if they really love their wifes I recommend to talk to your husband and see how his point of view is in this topic if he open minded then this means that he is less likely to cheat on you if he doesn't want to talk about this topic then thats a warning sign just keep a close eye on him.
Sadi
2007-06-18 15:57:11 UTC
There are many components of cheating wives; the greatest example most people would agree is maintaining extra marital relations. The other examples may vary depending on society and culture and also sensitivity of the wife. Someone may hide his actual income to his wife and use it at other issues he thinks important (may be helping others, where his wife would not agree). There may be other examples like this. Telling some lies on non harmful issues are common for the husbands. Some sensitive wives may treat this also cheating.



There are millions of people you would get having no extra marital relations in life. But there are few people who do not cheat their wives if we consider the other issues I have discussed.
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2007-06-18 15:52:28 UTC
Am sure there are men that do not cheat on their wives. I think the reason that the ones that do cheat is because they are not happy in their relationship with their wives for whatever reason. Same with women.
Proud Pa of 6 Boys
2007-06-18 15:37:45 UTC
Ive never cheated on my wife and now after 12 years of marriage we have 5 boys and in a couple of weeks my wife and I will have another baby boy. We are still going on very strong. We both are really commited to each other and vowed in marriage until death do us apart. I dont know what causes a man to cheat but there are plenty of men like me who would never cheat on their partner.
SOULCRY
2007-06-18 16:48:15 UTC
Yes, there are faithful men out there.

I am one.

In fact, my fiance lives 1000's of miles away, and I'm waiting till marriage for sex.

And then, only with her, evermore, regardless. Even if she could'nt have sex, I would still marry her.



Love is a choice.

The feeling follows.





But why most anyone cheats, as women do also, is usually because they have had more than one marital and/or sexual partner. More than one is all it takes.





The result >>

Divided devotion.

Conflict of interests.

(>>1 Corinthians 7<<).

(Mathew 5, Ephesians 5).

Back and forth.

Comparing.

Never enough again.

Fear of commitment.

Etc.



And porn, fantasy >>

Causes men to be mentally married to many women. As men are often mostly stimulated by sight. And is designed to only have (behold) one image only.

Anything more than one, is unfaithfulness.

And sex before and/or outside of marriage, is unfaithfulness.



If you had sex before marriage, well, that would be part of your problem.



Why do woman compromise their standards?

I know, cuz they trust, or try to.

Trust the man's word.



"If you really love me, you'd have sex with me" many say deceptively, just to "get some".

No, if they really love you, they will WAIT. If they truly accept you, regardless of... .

If they really love you, just for you.



Without the "I DO!", and being before and by God, there is no security.

Whatsoever.



And it depends on how the bloodline is/was also. What we saw our parents, etc do. And if we had healthy relationships and role models, or if we learned fear of trusting, fear of relationships failing, and/or learned how to be unfaithful.



More than one intimate/marital/sexual relationship, becomes...

never enough.





The cure?

>> Burn all the bridges.

All the ties to past devotions/relations.

All the porn, all the sensual/sexual mental images, fantasies, lustful immoral desires.

Repent, turn from it, and evermore resist.

And...

be faithful.

To God alone.



"By faith", is the only way.





I could elaborate/illustrate so much more, but that's the basics.

If ya desire to know more, message me.





There's also a lil insight found in Genisis 3.

Something bout...

when God alone is not enough.





And there's a lil somethin bout ...

"the image".

And, about that special grin on a man's face, and gleam in his eye, upon seeing that 1 image. And only loses it when the image becomes "shared", contaminated, mixed, polluted, adulterated.

Multiplied, exaggerated, diminished, etc.

Thus... conflict.

Interest.

Devotion.





More reading? Hehe.

>> Proverbs 5, 6 & 7.







God bless.





-DC-
justa
2007-06-18 15:33:21 UTC
Yes there are, but "Man Not Caught Cheating" isn't ever on the news or gossip circuit.

Men cheat for any excuse they can find or make up. Cheaters like to blame their partners, but they never blame themselves for their own failure to keep their vows. Its like they think their sex life is more important than anything or anyone. A self deception that is immature and hides their insecurity.
2007-06-18 20:32:02 UTC
Been a loyal bf/husband for almost 22 years. Never strayed and never considered straying. I kills me when I see it happen. We've talked about it and both agreed early on (when dating before we got married) that if cheating ever happened, the cheater packs up and leaves the other with everything. Still happily together with a simple pact.
WhyNotMe
2007-06-18 15:46:15 UTC
Yes we are out here!! I would of never cheated when I was married. I think the reason is. Once the light goes out in someones heart, & darkness sets in. People become vine in there imagenation, thinking that the grass is really greener on the other side.
teamlessbear
2007-06-18 15:32:37 UTC
I have never cheated on my wife.

We have been married almost 3 years.

Have I looked at a woman walking at the mall or something, and thought "WOW" Wouldnt that be nice to get with, then thought, nah, I love my wife and would never jeopardize that.

And thats all it takes to be faithful, in my eyes anyway.
PRETTYBOY
2007-06-18 15:34:35 UTC
A lot of things ca be said about men cheating. I say if the man is getting good sex, and giving good sex to a partner trying various spontaneous things, and is attracted to her. her is not going anywhere.
joseph c
2007-06-18 15:34:35 UTC
i dont cheat. I never ever cheated on my ex wife when i was married. PERIOD. If i get married again hopefully before im 30, (currently 23), I wont cheat then or anytime inbetween.
¿?jordyn?¿
2007-06-18 15:32:59 UTC
of course there are men that dont cheat!! my daddy never ever cheated on my mom. same with my grandparents, and my great grandparents. my bf doesnt either.





from what i heard, they cheat because they are bored with their spouse and are looking for some adventure or exciment.



if your man is cheating on you, have a hot night!

give him some love and excitment,



dont let him get bored.
livinhapi
2007-06-18 15:32:17 UTC
yep there are lots of men who don't cheat they are quiet and don't advertise because they don't have to tell the whole world that they don't cheat, its the cheater who like the whole world to know so they brag about all of their adventures.
2007-06-18 15:33:29 UTC
Yes, sweetie there are men who do not cheat. My advice, enjoy being single and Mr. Right will bump into you unexpected, you wont realize it but you will enjoy
tannerlady
2007-06-18 15:58:59 UTC
I would have bet that mine wouldn't cheat but I was wrong, I guess they all have the tendency to do it. I think alot of it isnot wanting to get old or mid-life crisis.
precious
2007-06-18 15:36:24 UTC
I agree why do MEN cheat,i mean you give them all you've got but still its not enough.....I'm talking from experience
2007-06-18 15:31:08 UTC
People cheat because they're not happy. If you can keep your mate happy, chances are they won't. It's more up to you than him. What do you think will be the outcome in your relationship? Only you can answer that.
ms_sexy_thang05
2007-06-18 15:31:17 UTC
Cheating is in a man's nature. I personally think that only 5 % of all men don't cheat. But men like variety, sex, and lots of it. A man is going to be a man.
Answer Man
2007-06-18 15:35:30 UTC
No! All men would cheat given the right set of circumstances. I truly believe it is genetic.
Sexy lady
2007-06-18 15:31:08 UTC
of cours there are. but any person man or woman has the temptation to cheat its just if they r strong enough to resist that or not
2007-06-18 15:56:48 UTC
Humans were not designed to be monogamous. So, occasionally the ones in a not fulfilling relationship will look else where for their next meal.
Magaroni
2007-06-18 15:30:36 UTC
I'm sure there aer plenty of men who don't cheat. As far as I know, my husband is one of them. As for the why, this question was just asked: https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20070618075603AA2dPiY
2007-06-18 15:31:19 UTC
It's actually shown that women cheat more than men do. I for one have never cheated
whobeme021
2007-06-18 15:31:33 UTC
Most women aren't remotely into sex like guys are. Once I'm dissatisfied in bed, and we have discussed it and nothing changed, why wouldn't I cheat? Women seem to lose sexual interest after a few years whereas guys are always strong.
?
2007-06-18 15:30:37 UTC
the real question is.... who do they cheat on?
bruce_eel
2007-06-18 15:30:31 UTC
i wouldn't. i can't even bring myself to go out on a date with another girl before I break it off with another girl.
2007-06-18 15:34:29 UTC
I understand they get bored or dont get sex at home.

But how could you have sex with one woman and then come home and have sex with your wife.

That is just gross!
2007-06-18 15:31:03 UTC
boredom, lack of interest in spouse, vagina.....


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