divorce - problems..

Question

why does a couple decide to have a divorce? what are the usual problems?? what are the problems while having a divorce? and what are the problems after a divorce?

Answer 1

I doubt that there is any one main reason for a divorce. Some are for legitimate reasons such as; cheating, abuse (physically, emotionally and substance).



Then you have other reason. They get married and when something does not go there way or they are just tired of the relationship, boom, divorce! Marriage doesn't mean anything to them.



Problems during would be the expense and the fighting. Cost of lawyers, Cost of losing things that mean something to you, to the other person, the constant fighting and hamstringing.



Problems to deal with after a divorce are learning to live with out an additional income, dealing with life alone, not have another person to lean or depend on.



But then again some divorces are very civilized and not all that dramatic. But most aren't. I personally have not been through one but have seen some nasty ones!

Answer 2

There are so many reasons why a couple would decide to divorce.

Usual problems are money fallen out of love and adultery.

Problems while having a divorce are the "agreement". IF children involved, then usually child support issues and visitations, and custody.

After the divorce IF children involved are same as stated and maybe a partner who gets jealous if the other finds a new love first. For some reason, this makes a person go crazy!!

Answer 3

Lots of things can cause divorce: personal problems, fighting, infidelity, etc. If marriage counseling does not work out, divorce is normally a good solution for couples, especially with couples with children. Granted, some couples handle divorce poorly (i.e. blame it on children which is the WORST thing either parent could do).



As the son of a divorced couple, I can say from experience that divorce is a good thing if a relationship does not work out. While it definitely has problems (such as moving houses, parents trying to force you to take sides, etc), it is far better than witnessing your parents not getting along in the same abode. Both my parents are great people and are far happier now with the divorce.

Answer 4

there are way too many reasons as to why a couple decides to divorce. although i believe divorce should be limited to those who are being abused, cheated on, or dealing with addictions (their own or the other person's). all other excuses that most use are just that, excuses. they really ought to just grow up, own up to their responsibilities, and learn how to cope with life in a more productive and healthy manner.



the usual problems is division of assets, custody, money and simply the division of their lives.



potential problems after a divorce is not being able to let go of the other in a healthy manner; which can result in stalking, harassment, etc. when there are children involved, that seems to cause ongoing problems for everyone; especially when either party begins to date and possibly marries. money can again be a huge problem for both sides after a divorce. they say it takes about 2 years to begin to recover financially from a divorce.

Answer 5

because they can't work out their problems. Usually they can't stand each other and fight alot. The problems during a divorce is seperation of property and children. After divorce is moving on with life again

Answer 6

Irreconcilable differences is usually why they divorce they just no longer see eye to eye.. Money, Alcohol abuse, Unemployment are the usual problems that cause the irreconcilable differences.

Problems while going through the divorce: A lot of bickering between attorneys over who gets what and who wants what. Problems after are usually based around the children and visitation, alimony, child support issues like that..

I personally had issues with my ex 's attorney not my ex wanting to fight over a $2,000 car that I bought with a lawsuit winnings ( I sexually harassed at work) that was totaled in a wreck.and my ex sister in law contacted CPS and filed false reports to get my ex custody of the kids .. CPS Case was Closed when they found out that she was doing it out of spite and that my kids were clean, healthy, and taken care of

Answer 7

First, take a deep breath! Everything will be just fine. Second: Getting married under a swing-set is actually not legal in most states (except Ohio, MA, and CT) Third: Since your marriage never was consumated, you simply have to pay off Bobby. I suggest Skittles or a Hot Wheel car. Lastly: Next time you see your "Ex," as you lean to hand her a grape juicy cup, squeeze it, stain her shirt, and walk away.

Answer 8

Thats question is too general..Anything and everything can be grounds for divorce in a marriage

Answer 9

A married couple can divorce because of adulty..lack of committment to the relationship..abuses of all kinds, immature spouse..addictions..criminal activities by one spouse..financial issues..a secret life is exposed..

Answer 10

i believe that most divorces are because one of them is having an affair..depending on if there is children property assets etc..not getting over one another, and can't seem to move on with their lifes.

Answer 11

I decided it was time to let him be with the women he felt would make him happy. After his third affair, I was totally over it! He is now alone and miserable......Poor baby! NOT!

Answer 12

I think it's usually money or another person or both.

Answer 13

i agree with kittynyc