Grown Woman Spanked By Her Husband!?

Question

Last weekend I was at a cabin with a co-worker/friend, (we're pretty new friends), she invited some of us up. She said she wanted to go hiking in the woods but her husband said not to, that it was getting too late and we'd get lost. But she later came up to me and said we should go anyway, she didn't care what he said. Well, long story short, we got lost, it got dark, we got scared. They had to send a search party out for us. We were so embarrassed. Anyway, her husband was furious, another friend took me home right after. Well, a few days later at work I asked her how mad her husband was, she said, "Well, let's just say I couldn't sit down the next day." I was taken aback, I said you mean, he spanked you? She said "Yep, pretty good too. He busted my butt with my hairbrush for about 10 minutes, it hurt like heck. I definitely deserved it though, and I definitely learned my lesson." I didn't know what to do or say. I mean, I never heard of a man spanking his wife. Is this abuse? Should I say something? Or just leave it alone? She even told me that her husband said I deserved to be spanked too because I was at fault also, and that I'd better be glad I wasn't there that night, or I would have gotten my rear end blistered as well. Guess I'm glad I went home. lol. Anyway, what do you think? What should I do? Did he abuse her, or was he justified in spanking her?

Answer 1

Assuming that this is a true story, and you're not a troll, it sounds like your friend openly accepts the spanking that she received and that she deserved it for disobeying her husband. If this is the case, then it sounds like she is a part of a domestic discipline relationship. You can look that up online, but the general idea is that one member of a household is answerable to the other for bad behavior, usually in the form of spanking or other juvenile punishments. She has consented to this ahead of time, and probably knew the possible consequences when she talked you into the nighttime hike.



It's also possible that your friend is a more basic spanko (person that enjoys spanking or being spanked). She may still be in a domestic discipline relationship, but occasionally pushes the envelope when she's in the "mood" for a good spanking. This tends to blur the lines between punishment and pleasure, but some brats (a generic term for spankees who misbehave for attention, though usually in minor and unobtrusive ways) go out of their way to get in trouble like this, though they usually end up biting more than they can chew.



Either way, her husband has no business dragging you into their relationship mechanics, so he would have had no reason to lay his hands on you. You never consented to being treated that way, so it doesn't matter how much you might deserve it. (Which, by the way, you really do, but deserving something doesn't always mean that it has to be so.) It's possible, if your friend is a "brat" as I suggested, that he may have thought that you were "in on" her plan, rather than simply being pulled into it, so he might have thought that you'd know what the repercussions would be. If so, then your "friend" may have been throwing you under the bus, and allowed him to think that you were an active part in her plan.

Answer 2

Woman Spanked

Answer 3

Hello!

...........If a red flag went up in your head on this scenerio, then it is a legit question that is making YOU question, now, the obvious.I think it wrong,abusive, even stupid.

I am not an authority at all. But i will without a doubt tell you how that if i had experiencedthe same thing as you stated; if would remind me of a childhood friend who had done something wrong.So much so that the parent would say "spank" my friend in front of me.

Yes i would anonymously intervein by talking with an officer of the law.

The best thing that could come of this is a casual conversation with an officer/your own physician.

Take good care! ...excuse any typos(i am bad at them)

:)

Answer 4

If that is how your friends feels about it that's fine. Both of you deserved a spanking for making the company worry, but her husband should not be the one who spanks you.

Answer 5

If your story is true, then what she finds okay is her business...some couples are into sh*t like that...some women don't mind being treated like an ill-behaved child...to each, their own...

Answer 6

It's cool. My husband loves it when I spank him. He actually begs for it. It is what it is.

Answer 7

Sounds a bit kinky to me..Maybe that's their thing.

Answer 8

my guess is you're practicing for a career in porn literature.

Answer 9

BS.