My Husband and I Live in Bradenton, Florida and we are looking to move to Tampa/ Brandon area within this year, by December 1st. I am in the process of medical concerns with an illness i have, PCOS, and I love my doctor. We have been married since October of 2008, We are living on our own in an Apartment and he would like to have his best friend as a room mate when we move. My husband and I love being in the city area, and love the nightlife. At first I thought it was a great idea to move and everything, and have a room mate, now im having second thoughts. I want to stay in Bradenton for another year so I know my medical issue is undercontrol, and im also trying to become a CNA through a nursing home...Its my dream, and since i cant really pay for college right now, i think this is the best rate to go. SOOO, Do I Move to Brandon which is between tampa and where i live now, Or stay where we are now and look for a house while i start my career and get healthier...? Im soo confused, If i stay, Ill hurt two people, My husband, and my husbands friend who we already told we were moving to tampa...PLEASE HElp, I DONT want to be a controlling wife...I already told my husband im having issues moving...its bad enough i dont see my family where we are at now, and we're only 40 minutes away from them...
P.S. My husband are on the rocks just a bit, because we have alot of stress, and we barely have time together, and its hurting us...We work the same job, at the same post, thats our quality time we get...sucks!