Swingers.............?

Question

Swingers.............?

Answer 1

First off you tell no one. You get with a 'good' swingers club, one that has an orientation session or some people getting together for Q&A. Also, a majority of the people in swingers clubs are married. It can strengthen a good marriage and destroy a bad marriage.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with swinging as long as it is done with the full knowledge and consent of each partner. Generally swingers do not talk about it with others outside the community they swing within.

Answer 3

We love it, but we don't tell just anyone....people in the lifestyle know how to be discrete and are very helpful with advice.

Answer 4

It's actually great! Especially if used to enhance NOT fix....I suggest checking out http://www.swinglifestyle.com You're prolly going to get alot of negativity and BS here.

Answer 5

As long as the both of you are on the same level about being with other couples... I dont think its wrong at all!

Answer 6

Those of us who've been on the forum long enough know that your next question here is going to be something like,

"We were swinging and my husband ran off with another woman." Or, "I have herpes and genital warts." Or, "We were swinging and my husband left me for the other guy."



When you start inviting a parade of horny strangers into your bedroom, you really have no control over where the deal is going to end up. So, why did you get married in the first place--just wanted the free ring?





Kent in SD

Answer 7

What saddens me is people that love to throw their self righteous views around on here when we live in a world of hypocrisy. Bending God's laws....let's talk about that....THOUGH SHALL NOT KILL.....hmmmm war in Iraq? Death Penalty? No if's, and's or but's about it. Right?????????



Swing on people....Have fun...stay safe.

Answer 8

It's great.. I go with a friend of mine and her husband to swinger parties while my hubby is a way on business we are the life of the party.. If you're the wife approach the other wife first is your best bet...

Answer 9

why would u want to tell other people???



This is between you and your man....have fun...this is not a bad thing...it is a personal choice

Answer 10

What's the use getting married then, if your not going to remain faithful to your spouse. ANY sex outside of marriage even if you and your spouse agree to swap with other people, is adultery. I made vows before God and man that I would remain faithful to my wife that she would be the ONLY woman I would be with. And it saddens me that people think that they can bend the law of God that says Do NOT commit adultery. Swinging just like cheating is adultery. No if's, and's or but's about it.