Question:
My ex husband left me for another woman 2 years ago. We slept together last week, does he want to get back together with me?
2017-01-25 23:36:28 UTC
My ex husband is 27 and I am 25 we were married for 2 years. We have a 19 month old son together, my ex left me when I was pregnant. He left when I was 5 months pregnant he told me he had met someone else and I should go and live with my mom. I was heart broken I had only ever wanted a perfect family for our son and I loved my husband so much. Our divorce was finalised 10 months ago and I have moved in to my own home with my son. Until last November he had never seen our son and we had no contact. Last week our son was unwell so his dad came to see him at our house. We got talking and he told me he was sorry he left us that he panicked about becoming a dad and he needed time. We slept together and the next morning was so perfect he got up with our son and cared for him then made me breakfast. He told me he left the woman and he wants to be a family. I told him I still love him and he said he loves me. Before he left he said we could talk the next time he visits our son. I phoned him 3 days ago and he sent me a text telling me to give him space. I want to be a family again because I love him and I only had a mom and I wanted my kids to have their dad with them. Do you think he means it and that he wants to be a family?
Seventeen answers:
2017-01-28 22:15:37 UTC
eek, does he want to get back together with me? Roman Catholic sign of the cross is upside down, done with five fingers instead of three, is done from left to right instead of right to left, etc. (basically inviting demons). Antichrist's Third Temple will have 8 chambers: a chamber per main religion; antichrist will be crowned in this temple; during crowning, he won't read the "belief prayer" correctly (rejecting Christ and acknowledging himself); when he will take his gloves off to make sign of the cross incorrectly (just for show), many people will see his big nails and will reject him; Patriarch (who will be crowning him) will say that this is the antichrist; antichrist will kill him. Also, antichrist will kill those priests who disagree with him at the 8th "wolf" Council; others will worship him when a bird dies at his feet. Roman Catholics, Satanists, and Buddhists use the same mudras; if you see these mudras on an icon, then it's not Orthodox icon; Orthodox icon has IC XC symbol (Jesus Christ). Roman Catholics pay drunks and prostitutes to pose for icons; passions of drunks and prostitutes transfer to those who pray to these images. Normal Orthodox icons are inspired by the Holy Spirit. Gaad in Ruski = Satan; hence, Americans = blasphemers because they always say: "Oh, my god!". Santa (word for Saint in Satanic languages) = Satan; hence, Spanish + Italian + Portuguese = blasphemers. Anathema to Satanic languages; triple anathema. Learn Church Slavonic; no curses in it; curses = prayer to Satan. All religions except Orthodoxy worship Satan. On bread for communion: IC XC NIKA (Jesus Christ Conquers) plus cross = Orthodox; hexagram plus Dusha Maya = antichrist. Jews and Muslims pray head down (either standing, bowing, or kneeling); this is Satanic prayer. Orthodox look into the eyes of icon; energy goes their way; they get healed; head and shoulders come together to reject Satan slowly and then fast to normal showing allegiance to Christ and not the devil. Hands cannot be on groin or behind back; either put them crossing each other on chest (right over left) or just by your sides. Legs together so that a demon doesn't run underneath your legs. Clergy who will not "put Buddhist icons and serve antichrist's blood" will be killed; only 7 churches will be left as Pelageya of Ryazan predicted. In 2006 and at other meetings, fake patriarchs and bishops signed a bunch of documents betraying Orthodoxy by saying that all religions worship the same Supreme Being; triple anathema; don't let heretics tell you what to do. America will be last country to switch to Euro. Three big earthquakes will shake the three superpowers; 1st big earthquake in Russia; 2nd (bigger one) in China; 3rd (biggest of the three) will be in America. NATO will nuke Ukraine to blame Russia for it; then NATO will nuke Russia from Scandinavia. China will attack Russia; but will not get past Ural Mountains; bio-genetic weapon will be used against Chinese soldiers (they will run back to China and hide in closets in fear) and weather weapon will freeze Siberia to - 200 Celcius; stadium-size chunks of unmeltable ice will fall from the lower sky (because when rockets go into higher sky they bring this ice down to lower sky). Russia will destroy Turkey and America. China will have a hole across the whole country to the abyss (because of another super weapon used to stop Chinese aggression); radiation from this hole will be massive; Chinese will try to keep quiet about it; a lot of people will fall into this hole.

Scientists don't see dinosaurs because of radiation. Only Eurasia and Alaska (both without coasts) will remain after demons blow up Antarctica (which surrounds the flat earth) and Greenland melts. Move to Ural Mountains or inland Alaska. Sionists wanted war between Russia and Germany from June 11th to October 11th on their holidays because (666 times 3)+(6 times 3) = 2016 (in their twisted logic).

Tube people = demons. Clones = demons. Human costumes that demons wear = demons. Dinosaurs and 666ed people have triple stranded DNA; normal person can't swallow 666ed food (designed for 666ed people). Demons live inside clones. Bacteriologist Alexandre Yersin (who discovered Bubonic plague) is depicted on the Shroud of Turin. There is another shroud (Shroud of Milan) on which blasphemer Yosef (who was crucified on a pole in 1066 AD) is depicted. Menachem Mendel Schneerson, Lenin (el=deity in Hebrew, nine = no in German; so, when chanted repeatedly is blasphemy against the Creator), and Yosef were possessed by Azazel; now, Rico Cortes is possessed by Azazel.

WW3 happens; 7% of people will be left; after people are tired of war, they will elect the antichrist as one world leader; don't vote. ISIS stands for Israeli Secret Intelligence Service. Next false flag: Statue of Liberty in order to attack Iran; one big shake, one giant step forward, one giant collapse. Move away from coasts as nukes will go off in the ocean (at where tectonic plates meet; result: megatsunamis 1km high).

Wear natural clothing so that if a bomb goes off it won't stick to the body as fast as synthetic clothes. All metal will be burned for fuel; so, save knives, crowbars, shovels, wood-burning stoves, etc. Also, save cloth/fabric/textile to cover the wounds and diseases.

Eat natural food because nanochips, cells of aborted fetuses, bug DNA, and other poisons are in food that is commonly sold; reject vaccines, medical care, medicine, etc. because nanochips are administered thru IVs, implants, fillings, etc. If 1000-1500 nanochips are in your right hand, then you can't make proper Orthodox sign of the cross with the right hand; last mercy for you then will be to cut the hand off.

Seraphim of Sarov and Sergiy of Radonezh will be resurrected after WW3 for a short time; Seraphim of Sarov will show the new Ruski Tsar who will fight the antichrist for about 2 years and 8 months. Those who go see Seraphim of Sarov will be healed of their infirmities/illnesses/sicknesses/ diseases; if you want to see him then, hurry because he won't stay longer than a few weeks.

Earth is flat; stands on 3 pillars (the Most Holy Trinity); pillars stand on water at zero Kelvin. Zodiac is planetary prison of demons; don't believe in horoscopes or you'll exhibit the traits of the trapped demons. Most thoughts and dreams are from demons; demons never do good. Sleep fully clothed; pray the Jesus prayer. Pray to your guardian angel to have normal sleep.

Humans were created about 7525 years ago. Ruski Orthodox Christian Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov was the last prophet before Enoch and Elijah return to preach against the antichrist.

Birds participate in time creation. It's a sin to kill birds. Dinosaurs live under our level. They will get out through sinkholes and lakes. To kill them, go for their nerves. Save the birds; but kill the dinosaurs. First dinosaur will come out of Volga River in Russia.

Demons grow human skin (from a sample taken during abduction) and put it on so as to look like us. Demons will invite people to be healed inside their UFOs; those who go will be like zombies after. Gov't provides demons with diamonds and allows demons to abduct people. If you're being abducted, slowly pray the Jesus prayer.



Don't panic. Demons use diamonds and souls to power their UFO craft. The bigger the diamond, the more it lasts. Demons have 4 UFO bases: 1)Moon 2)Inside fake mountain Kailash in Tibet 3)In lake Baikal in Russia 4)In Atlantis which is underneath the Mariana Trench in Pacific Ocean. There are no aliens. Nobody lives on other planets.

Airplanes that go down are hit by demons because they need the airspace to fight Jesus. Antichrist is pale with red eyes. He's possessed by Satan since he's 12 years old. He flies very fast; deceived people will say that "Christ is here; Christ is there". Sometimes, he wears blue robe over left shoulder while red robe is underneath. He wears gloves to hide long nails. He's surrounded by demons who appear as angels of light. Antichrist will trick people to believe that he can do mountain moving and resurrection (using holograms); fire from the sky is easy (considering the gases from pollution in the atmosphere).

Don't go into a UFO to be healed by demons. Green 666 is given by isotope rays on wrist or forehead when people stretch hands to receive small plastic grey card with no name on it (World Passport). Police will microchip and isotope ray people on the highways. Microchipped people will be influenced by computers to take grey plastic card; but when they do, 666 is given. Food stores will isotope ray people too. Antichrist will also release prisoners to mark people. Reject 666 at all cost because it leads to permanent hell.

If you're about to be marked, pray the Jesus prayer. Hide with Orthodox Christians to escape 666; leave all electronics behind so that antichrist's minions can't track you. Burn documents because they're from Satan. Give to charity in the name of Archangel Michael; he rescues people from temporary hell twice a year (or brings them up a level, that is, to a level with less punishment; eventually, people are freed). Feed the pigeons; when pigeons bow down, people are saved from temporary hell. Forgive me.



https://youtube.com/watch?v=8dub8PF2d8E

http://fatheralexander.org/graphics/sects_e.pdf

http://cs629216.vk.me/v629216013/6f4c/Qji_GVZorQY.jpg

http://ic.pics.livejournal.com/m_e_l_n_i_k_o_v/30839524/10997/10997_original.jpg

https://vk.com/wall-25720730?q=рязанская&w=wall-25720730_57029%2Fall



https://youtube.com/channel/UCql8z99xa5QH8nSdkfnzIkw/videos

http://vk.com/otrok_slava?w=wall-31832035_103469%2Fall

http://orthodoxinfo.com/praxis/guidech3.pdf

http://fatheralexander.org/booklets/english/life_after_death.htm

http://pravoslavie.ru/english/55141.htm
?
2017-01-27 03:28:31 UTC
Nah, he just wanted to have sex with you again. Tell him the next time he comes over and wants to have sex again, that sheet ain't going to fly with you anymore.
2017-01-26 15:10:41 UTC
He may have thought he wanted to get back together or he may have said what he said, to get you in bed. After enjoying some sex and a little 'family time', he now needs space...that's another way of saying, no...he's not ready to consider getting back together. The sex was nice, but the thought of having the responsibility of a significant other and a child on a full time basis, isn't really what he wants right now.



At least, that's my take on it. You're asking us to be mind readers, and we're not. We can only guess, based on your posted and what we may or may not know about human behavior, as well as our own personal experiences with people.



Proceed with caution if he contacts you again. Don't get your hopes up, and don't consider remarrying unless you two can be together, seriously, for at least a year with no major issues.
2017-01-26 01:26:05 UTC
He is a horrible, selfish, heartless person, and always will be. He was probably just feeling lonely and he used you. Nothing has changed, people don't change.



You will probably keep chasing him, until he disappoints you yet again. I do not think you will listen to anybody's advise here, because you want to take back the man who left you pregnant and never saw his son, but at least listen to this... GO ON THE PILL!!!!
?
2017-01-26 01:02:22 UTC
Most likely he still has feelings for you, but probably does not want to get back together with you.
I Try 2 Spy
2017-01-26 00:54:00 UTC
Your situation is nearly identical to a former co-worker of mine also about the same age. Here's how that went;



They were newly married, had the first kid fast. By the first year anniversary he tells her out of the blue he can't take being a family guy anymore since it's cramping his style, and can't stand the sight of her. He moves out and in with another woman. He wants a divorce. The day he brings over the divorce papers her tells her he loves her, wants to be a family, wants to make things right so they sleep together. Papers not signed. About a couple months later she finds out they are expecting the second kid. He tells her he can't take her popping out kids and he still wants the divorce. Of course he divorces her and married the girlfriend.



Lesson here is, once a cheat (usually) always a cheat. He left you when you needed him most. Didn't want parental responsibility. Came back said all the right things you wanted and needed to hear, then split again. Not dependable adult family stable type man. He is an insensitive clod to treat you this way. Turn to the people who have shown you support to move on.
seedy history
2017-01-26 00:53:05 UTC
No. I think that he meant he'd wanted to have been someone else. A lot of time has gone by. He might have regrets but that doesn't mean he wants to instantly become a family man! You do need to make sure he's paying you child support. And allow him to be in his child's life if he requests it. But there is no way you know for sure that you'd still want this guy who dumped you for two years. He's not the same guy you EVER thought he was going to be. Don't call him. But do file for child support. And, if you want him to be a part of your lives, be nice when he comes to call. There is no way you can demand, require, or even expect him to want to be a "family" with you though. Not as your spouse or boyfriend anyway. Let things unfold naturally. His experience with you and your son scared him. Apparently he liked it... but it scared him. He's no way prepared to be in a family with you. Just let it unfold. He might get there but it sounds like he's fighting it.
Rosalie
2017-01-26 00:51:18 UTC
This is typical abusive behavior.

get off the dream cruise and see him for the trash that he is - NO ONE worth having would take off from a pregnant wife and run away with another woman, thing one. Thing two- having the unmitigated gall to come back and talk you into having sex again is disgusting - and then to top it off, HE wants space? That's rich.



Cut him off. Let your only contact be when he gets visitation with his son. And you need to stop thinking this cheating b*stard is your prince charming, because he is not. It's high time you realized you deserve better than him, and not to let him teach this behavior to your son.



Kids learn by watching, even at an early age. Keep your dignity, stay away from your ex husband, and go find a better man. A real one who isn't using you for sex.
Oh Wise One
2017-01-26 00:08:39 UTC
So he slept with you, told you he wants his family back then asked for space? Nope....red flag. He's not serious or committed. Please stay guarded. I know you want that situation to work, but he clearly isn't ready.
Turmoyl
2017-01-25 23:53:08 UTC
No, I think he just wanted to get laid.

And when he promises to talk later, he's giving you what you want - false promises, teases, prepping you for another possible near-future sexual encounter.
opinionated
2017-01-27 05:35:43 UTC
no

he cheated on you...now he is cheating with you
Barb Outhere
2017-01-26 22:32:37 UTC
"Do you think he means it and that he wants to be a family?" No, sorry I don't. What I see is a man who was at a lose end because the woman he left you for was no longer available and he went looking for some bootie and found it in you. Then when he had what he wanted he did what he did before and left.

He isn't interested in being a Dad, or a faithful Husband either. Your "perfect family" doesn't exist, and certainly not with him. You need to come to terms with that, and get your heads out of the La La Land clouds or he will continue to hurt and USE you.

"...he sent me a text telling me to give him space..." There's you biggest clue. You had sex, he has gotten his, now he needs "space" until he is horny again. Please do not fall for it.
?
2017-01-26 06:43:52 UTC
If he MEANT it that he wants to be a family, he would not have told you to give him space. It's as simple as that.
Gaia’s Garden
2017-01-26 03:16:41 UTC
Sounds like he's having problems with his girlfriend and needs a place to stay. Tell him if he loves his son to pay child support. If he pays or not will tell you what you need to know.
Jordan
2017-01-26 03:10:40 UTC
It's unfortunate but he used you. He needed someone to have sex with. As hard as it will be, refuse next time if it ever happens. I feel really sorry for you that you could so easily fall into this trap after 2 years. The needing space is a huge red flag. Move on so that you won't be hurt again by him.
i + i
2017-01-26 01:28:09 UTC
He likely just wants to fu(k you.
2017-01-25 23:56:25 UTC
Well, it sounds like he was caught up in the moment with you while visiting you. You both sound like you each have a bit of a burning flame still remaining from your past relationship. However, that flame is/was not strong enough to keep you both together even now. So you made love for old time sake, it felt great and you both were in fantasy land while it lasted, but now "real world" has crashed in. He was not a man while you were pregnant or when your son was born. So why would you expect him to be a man now? You both got sexually satisfied and for him, that is all he wanted. You sound like you want more...well you deserve more. I advise you to move on.


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