Is this married woman looking to cheat with me?

Question

I have a married female friend . We have known each other a long time and nothing has ever happened between us. Her husband and my wife both trust us to hand out together alone. But lately I wonder if we are too close or if she is wanting something more.

Her husband has to leave early for work each day. And my wife travels often or works late. This woman texts me frequently during the day. It feels like I get a play by play of her working day. I think she must text to me more than him or any of her gal friends. She even asks be when I am finishing work or if i have arrived home.

On nights when her husband is busy and she knows my wife is away she asks me out for dinner. She also asks me for lunch, just the two of us. I feel like she sees me more than any of her gal friends. I get emails from her in the early morning, or late at night, just funny stories and videos but they are sent only too me she is not sharing them with anyone else.

When we are together she does not mention her husband much only to complain about him. She often vents her frustrations and shares she doubts with me.

I have asked this question before and someone has pointed out that maybe she wants to be more than friends. I would like to get a 2nd opinion. Does she just want o be friends or is she looking for more? I know that she wanted to be more than friends in the past but she says she is happy with how things are right now.

Answer 1

Married Woman Looking To Cheat

Answer 2

Married Woman Looking For Man

Answer 3

Thats what its like having a married female friend. You feel the holes that her husband dont. He only gets the one between the legs. You go out, Talk, chat, like you said on nights when her husband is to busy?? She calls you. She wants a guy friend to fill in for her husband. And you do. She is your friend, But taking it to the next level. I would back away if she is looking for just sex. And dont confuse lust and love together. I do have married female friends. We talk very sexual and open on everything. But thats a friendship, What do you want with her. You do have a say as yes lets do it or not.

Answer 4

Well do you want something else to happen between you two?

If she is texting you more than her husband and if she is telling you all her problems about her husband probably.



But think about this. You are a grown men. Think about the damage you will do to your marriage, your wife, you will destroy the future of your kids if you have kids. I know is tempting but dont cheat on your wife. You will destroy their marriage too and their kids. Think about do you really wanna do all that just because of 5 minutes of sex and pay the price for the rest of your life??.??

Answer 5

God, are you thick, she want to have an affair with you,on no account go out with this woman, do not be alone with her, tell her if she wants to go out to go with her husband, i would also tell your wife what she has been doing, otherwise the so called friend will tell her, with additions!

Answer 6

We don't know this woman or her intentions! You have to Man up and ask her! or you will have to tell her how much you love your wife and would NEVER do anything to betray her or your family or your honor! Come on! You could of figured this out on your own, Right?

Answer 7

Given the number of times

you have posted about this,

my guess is you desperately

want something to happen.

Quit wasting everyones

time here and just go do it.

Answer 8

Just keep her at a distance.

Answer 9

you look like the next meal ticket.

Answer 10

lol. If you have to ask, then yes.

Answer 11

yes she is, no doubt

Answer 12

no