PLEAS HELP? I am married to a momma boy. This is a very unhealthy relationship.?

Question

My husband and I have been together 7yrs. Married 2. Ever since the marriage his mother has been so mean and spiteful. She thinks Im trying to take her son away from her. She got mad during the wedding planning because she couldnt pick out the colors. And she put her hands on me. Slapped me in my face. My husband want do anything because he said thats his mother. Everytime she get upset she get all in my face. He just agrees with her. Just Sunday. I am 24 and she is 57. She got mad because my Facebook status said some men should grow up. When you are married your wife and family should be your main focus. She doesnt even have a fb. But her sister who is 50 does. And called my mother in law. And told her what my status said. So when I went to visit her Sunday with the hubby and kids. She said hi like everything was fine. Then when my husband went outside. She said "***** I READ YOUR STATUS AND IF YOU DONT LIKE ME YOU CAN GET THE **** OUT MY HOUSE. I SAID WAHT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT. SHE SAID THE FB STATUS. I SAID I DIDNT SAY ANYTHING DISRESPECTFUL TOWARDS YOU. SHE SAID I HATE YOU ***** AND THREW A GLASS OF JUICE IN MY FACE AND HAIR. SO I WAS GATHERING MY ITEMS TO LEAVE. AND SHE THREW A IRON AT MY HEAD. I HAD TO GET STICHES. MY HUSBAND RAN IN AFTER my son said daddy granma hit my mommy and she"s bleeding. he still took her side. I went to the er. And then to the 24hr police report desk. She had lied and went up there and said I attacked her. So I listed as the suspect.Even though Im the one with stiches. Should I get an attorney when I go to court? AND Im really thinking about a divorce. Im so tired of this.

Answer 1

Kick him out so he can move in with her.

Answer 2

Your husband should get the ultimatum to either tell Mom to lay off or there will be a separation/divorce. He is really not helping your marriage at all.



You will need an attorney for an assault court case.



Finally, an opinion. LOSE THE FACEBOOK. That site is more trouble than gain.

Answer 3

If your husband is not prepared to put boundaries in place even after she has attacked you and given you stitches........leave.



You do not deserve to be attacked by your crazy mother in law and he should have enough respect for his wife and the mother of his children to at least stop her from being physically harmed.



I would never in my life go never go near the crazy old b*tch again. You don't have to. HE can't make you go. Yes. get an attorney. You shouldn't have a charge for eating up and 50 year old woman if you didn't do it. Criminal records stay with you.

Answer 4

your positioned up purely jogged my memory of a chum years in the past. She had a boyfriend and confident he replaced right into a mama's boy. they had gotten married besides. the mummy nagged nagged nagged and protecting on saying she wasn't sturdy sufficient. the mummy replaced into very controling sons spouse took it very stressful and did no longer know what to do. even tho there replaced into many talks with son and mom. they divorced some years later. Thro the divorce listening to and etc It got here out that the mummy has been doing this for some years along with his gf's. this is unhappy whilst there are mothers that don't enable sons have there very own life.

Answer 5

OMG GiRl!! how have you stayed this long in the marriage? i would of been gone a long time ago i would not for one minute put up with my husband's mother treating me that way and the worst thing is your husband does not take your side for one second and hes your HUSBAND! tell your husband he just lost the best thing that ever happened to him and since hes so stuck up his mothers...yeah he can go have a relationship with her! you need to leave and find a real man!

Answer 6

I think the answer is obvious. When you marry a momma's boy, you marry the mother as well. Your husband will never be with any woman if he continues to let her do what she wants and take his mother's side. That's ridiculous. Why are you still there? What does he do for you? Besides let his mother abuse you (which your children are exposed to ...) and try to control your marriage and life. Just leave. He isn't worth it.

Answer 7

Facebook strikes again. When are people going to learn? It looks like you made a bad choice of families to marry into. Of course, you should get an attorney when you go to court, if you think you need one. Especially if this is being treated like a criminal case. Maybe he can handle your divorce, too. Sounds like you need one.

Answer 8

from the very 1st time she slapped you, you should have slapped that nasty woman back.and you should have never married him if he didn't do anything about it. i would definitely get an attorney and leave that crazy family quick. and as far as the financial thing i rather be broke that have to put up with the abuse.

Answer 9

yeah i would leave him so fast and work on getting full custody bcuz you know he's going to have that beast around your child and talking trash about you. i would hire a lawyer and leave him ASAP and and seperate the debts. hell he could move in with his lover i mean his mother. and he can have her pay the damn child support. hes a kittykat (pu**y) and keep it moving. oh and i would have effed that old tramp up. but thats me and my temper. it aint gonna get any better.

Answer 10

Pink....and sorry if you're offended....but this is hillbilly, ridge running crap.



Either lose the FB account and stop posting your problems there or find a husband who has some brains and balls.